Girls, don't you think you're being a little too hard on your stalker if...

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Do you give a guy who you consider a stalker a 2nd chance if he does something?

  • Something small: Stops emailing when you ask him

    Votes: 2 28.6%

  • Something medium: Stops emailing when asked AND apologizes

    Votes: 4 57.1%

  • Something big: Stops emailing , apologizes, asks forgiveness, sends funny video of something to you

    Votes: 1 14.3%
  • Total voters
    7
  • Poll closed .
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violakat

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#61
#61
GreenNnice said:
Choose good answers, ladies, TRUST me (and God) , guys everywhere await your answers. Let us say this though, many a-girls miss out on good guys because they THINK his actions are stalking

And, IF you want to answer a second question, girls, how about: When did you realize your stalker was really just a guy maturely, and, daré I say , Godly-bold AFTER you? What clued you in?

Remember, dolls, we guys' ears everywhere are listening to your every words. :)
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The only time I've ever felt like I might have been stalked was when this guy, on another site, somehow knew the exact city I lived in, and yet it was nowhere on my profile, much less any hints given. And I didn't even really think about it being stalking behavior, but more creepy behavior, until one of the men I asked about it, said it sounded more like a stalker. Anyway, after the initial contact, he never really contacted me again. I decided it was probably some trying to play a practical joke on me. (And that's what I'm sticking too.)

As for giving a guy another chance, I have done that before, after he decided he did want to try for a relationship. Things didn't work out, and we ended up being just friends.
 
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violakat

Guest
#62
#62
NodMyHeadLikeYeah said:
When i think of stalking, i think of someone sitting outside your house watching you, but for real if some guy wants to waste his time sittin outside my house tryin to watch the boring stuff i do all day..... go for it.

This is the stuff i cant tolerate though

Calling over and over again, emailing over and over again even when i havent responded to the first email or call that was sent.
Asking my friends questions about me.
Getting mad cause i wont spend every waking second with him
Asking me where i am all the time
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I agree, this isn't stalking behavior, just a guy who's overly clinging and needy. These type of guys need to get a life.
 
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Jullianna

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#63
#63
Someone who harasses you usually just means to irritate you, make you uncomfortable or get your attention in a negative way because they can't do it in a positive manner. A stalker concerns me more, as they may actually mean you bodily harm. Neither should be ignored, as one can lead to the other.
 
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