I don't see why women worry about how a man looks. Just because he looks good doesn't mean he'll treat you right. I've learned that the hard way. For me, he has to be honest, good humoured (not afraid to make cheesy jokes!), have an open mind, have faith in God, and be able to try to make me smile when I feel like the world is falling down on me even if he fails (cause I know he's trying)..
I may just be weird.. But yeah, that's what I look for.