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Depends on the guy.
For example I dont like submissive girls, or ones that are too easy I like to have to actually do some work in a relationship. On the other hand I dont like it when girls are too clingy or controlling, my ex for example would call me up at 4am and If I didnt answer she was like "You dont want to talk to me anymore!? blah blah blah" A girl should probably stop trying when the guy shows no interest or actually says he doesnt want to go out with them. And intimidated... hmm hard one, probably for me when you know your gf talks with her friends about you xD That always makes me a little nervous and stuff lol
For example I dont like submissive girls, or ones that are too easy I like to have to actually do some work in a relationship. On the other hand I dont like it when girls are too clingy or controlling, my ex for example would call me up at 4am and If I didnt answer she was like "You dont want to talk to me anymore!? blah blah blah" A girl should probably stop trying when the guy shows no interest or actually says he doesnt want to go out with them. And intimidated... hmm hard one, probably for me when you know your gf talks with her friends about you xD That always makes me a little nervous and stuff lol
R
when should you back off?
answer? when you realize you are getting hurt because they are rejecting you, don't want you, and are distancing themselves from you
what turns them off? and this is not all about sex
aggressiveness, and total control, unless of course they are a weakling and need all your love, attention, knowledge, ability, intelligence, and caretaking
of course, in America and with men who only look at appreance, physical attractiveness.
it mean not much to God, except in regard to come health concerns, but weight is a turn off.
I don't know, men like to cause worry and mental issues, how do they ever expect a woman to feel comfortable in her own skin, if they don't allow her to develop properly. being overweight is not ever just because you like food that much.
but then some men like weight, i guess they come to learn how to love.
it is all a silly game, but if you are going to be happy for the rest of your life, then if you cannot cope or compromise or fit into certain parts and matters of life, then the unbeautiful, shaped wrong, hurted humans of the world miss out on certain parts of life. Very sad. But it all happens
I think most guys get annoyed when you can't make a decision and stick by it. Especially once you reach a certain age, and level of maturity.
I don't know, there are way too many rules and everyone is different, it is very confusing. Simplicity is much better, creates a smoother life.
answer? when you realize you are getting hurt because they are rejecting you, don't want you, and are distancing themselves from you
what turns them off? and this is not all about sex
aggressiveness, and total control, unless of course they are a weakling and need all your love, attention, knowledge, ability, intelligence, and caretaking
of course, in America and with men who only look at appreance, physical attractiveness.
it mean not much to God, except in regard to come health concerns, but weight is a turn off.
I don't know, men like to cause worry and mental issues, how do they ever expect a woman to feel comfortable in her own skin, if they don't allow her to develop properly. being overweight is not ever just because you like food that much.
but then some men like weight, i guess they come to learn how to love.
it is all a silly game, but if you are going to be happy for the rest of your life, then if you cannot cope or compromise or fit into certain parts and matters of life, then the unbeautiful, shaped wrong, hurted humans of the world miss out on certain parts of life. Very sad. But it all happens
I think most guys get annoyed when you can't make a decision and stick by it. Especially once you reach a certain age, and level of maturity.
I don't know, there are way too many rules and everyone is different, it is very confusing. Simplicity is much better, creates a smoother life.
K
When I was single, I used to do that all the time. I dont think its bad. And I think women arent encouraging enough. For example, If I asked a guy for their number, and they said sure here it is, I would then call them to chat. I never had to ask them out. After a couple of phone conversations the lightbulb would turn on and the guy would ask me out. The fact that I asked for their number told them that I was interested, but I allowed them the chance to take the lead which is what most guys want in my opinion (especially if they're a bit shy and just need a bit of encouragement).
If a guy doesnt take the lead or figure it out, I take that as they are either not interested in me (in a dating way) or theyre a bit thick in the head and dont want to step out and prove themselves which just shows they're not spiritually mature enough yet .
I think all guys would love the chance to ask a girl out but just don't have the courage. A womans job is not to sit back with all your girlfriends intimidating him and wonder why hes not getting on with it, but to be alone with him in a friendly capacity (not throwing but putting yourself in front of him), encourage him gently, and NOT take away their chance to prove themselves.
If a guy doesnt take the lead or figure it out, I take that as they are either not interested in me (in a dating way) or theyre a bit thick in the head and dont want to step out and prove themselves which just shows they're not spiritually mature enough yet .
I think all guys would love the chance to ask a girl out but just don't have the courage. A womans job is not to sit back with all your girlfriends intimidating him and wonder why hes not getting on with it, but to be alone with him in a friendly capacity (not throwing but putting yourself in front of him), encourage him gently, and NOT take away their chance to prove themselves.
G
How do I know if he really loves me?
Ask Whitney Houston.
LOL.
Just kidding. Ask:.......God. I guarantee, aquagal, that He will know
Most guys give clues of relationship needing to end in different ways, I just try to be as forward as possible as soon as I know she's not the one. I ALWAYS talk to God, too, before breaking things off. He will ALWAYS get you thru the toughest things in life and breaking up with a girl is never easy nor should it be easy.
Ask Whitney Houston.
LOL.
Just kidding. Ask:.......God. I guarantee, aquagal, that He will know
Most guys give clues of relationship needing to end in different ways, I just try to be as forward as possible as soon as I know she's not the one. I ALWAYS talk to God, too, before breaking things off. He will ALWAYS get you thru the toughest things in life and breaking up with a girl is never easy nor should it be easy.
E
A girl that dresses stylish, but isn't revealing of herself is usually a girlfriend candidate.
Only stop trying to get the guy when you realize you don't have a lot in common, he is rude to you, or isn't Christian
If you want more guys to approach you, be by yourself (bookstore, sitting somewhere alone in Church, etc). It's a lot easier for guys to approach a girl by herself than have to approach her and her friend, impress both of them, make sure to pay attention to both, and worry about being judged by both.
Only stop trying to get the guy when you realize you don't have a lot in common, he is rude to you, or isn't Christian
If you want more guys to approach you, be by yourself (bookstore, sitting somewhere alone in Church, etc). It's a lot easier for guys to approach a girl by herself than have to approach her and her friend, impress both of them, make sure to pay attention to both, and worry about being judged by both.
If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life, never make a pretty woman your wife......
YouTube - ‪Jimmy Soul - If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life‬‏
YouTube - ‪Jimmy Soul - If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life‬‏