Thank you all so much for the generous comments. I pray I represent a lady to all involved. As to my reply posted above, I was joking with Ugly as I am sure he and most everyone who responded figured out. This 35 year old woman has no desire for a "young" man. As to a cougar, I appreciate your clarification, Ugly, for him regarding what one is nor did I appreciate the young man referring to me as such. And Zero you are right, I was NOT referring to the 22 young man in any way, shape, or form.