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Deade said:
Hello SherryD, a few of us drop in once in a while here. You are more than welcome, any time.

Well peeps, you will notice I didn't sign out Wednesday night. It is more of the ongoing struggle with my delusional youngest son. He came in the living room and threw a full single-serve water bottle at me and said I left some dishes in the kitchen sick (1-6 in. pan). When I got up to discuss it he beat me down with his fist.

He wound up breaking my right eye socket. He then insisted I go to the hospital and have it looked at. This is the fifth attack and now we finally have a police report on it. Pray he gets the help he needs before gets any worse.
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Deade do you have to live together?
Do you live with him or does he live with you?
 
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Lafftur said:
Oh gosh, too late! I already said something......sorry. :oops::love:
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Well Lafftur, you can say anything you want around me. Here is the thing about living by myself. My kids never come around to check on me. I get to feeling so isolated and the vanity of simply caring for myself waiting until I die just seems so empty. Even with all the fighting, it is better than going stir crazy.

This boy was abducted at 18 months old by the man on his birth certificate. He was the current husband of the boy's mother. She became pregnant with him during a separation by another man. She made a big mistake allowing her husbands name on the boy's birth certificate because her husband was a psychopath.

After their divorce, with vengeance on his mind her husband paid a little child support to kidnap the baby in order to torture him. He took the boy from Oklahoma to California for 9 months. When finally CPS got wind of a baby with bruises and ciggy burns all over his body, they took him in.

They were left with a boy just over 2 years old suffering from PTSD. He was a handful. Eventually I married his mother and adopted the boy to correct the error on the birth certificate and to block any further dealings with the psychopath. The boy kind of blamed all the adults in his life prior to the abduction but I was not there then. So I had some effect on him, controlling him.

He is still hostile toward his mother, maybe even worse than me. Since we moved back into his home town of Vinita, he has be regressing into depression spending 12-16 hours a day in his bedroom. He picks up on every conspiracy theory around. He is constantly fearful of everything and when I don't buy into his alternate reality, he gets hostile.
 
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Ruby123 said:
Goodnight Deade, I prayed for your situation with your son and also for your son.
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Thank you Ruby and all you other prayer friends. My step-daughter (I raised from 10) stepped in Yesterday. She is going to try and get me into an assisted living facility. I am still a little on the fence about that. But we all agree this cohabitation situation with my son has become unworkable. The good news is I am flush with money after receiving the $1200 stimulus payment. Should be any problem coming up with two months rent plus deposit. I just hate living alone.

So--Good morning all. Happy Sabbath to you one in all. Praise the Lord.

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Happy Sabbath Deade!


This was a crazy week to say the least, just have to praise God, and thank HIM for all the blessings we have....In troubling times.


 
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Goodnight Deade.

Any progress in moving yet. You mentioned you were considering assisted living.
 
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♬ ♪ ♫ ♩ Monday, Monday: ♬ ♪ ♫ ♩ Can't trust that dayyyy ♬ ♪ ♫ ♩ Whoa! Hold your horses. You can trust any day walking with Jesus. Praise His holy name! Good morning my friends, let's do this.




 
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Deade said:
No, my daughter is going to approach her pastor about a sponsorship into a facility. :D(y)
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Well I pray that if that is what you want you get somewhere nice, affordable and with plenty of great company and opportunity to still do the Lords work.
 
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Ruby123 said:
Well I pray that if that is what you want you get somewhere nice, affordable and with plenty of great company and opportunity to still do the Lords work.
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Well, I think my stepdaughter is dreaming because I doubt they will consider me needful of assisted living. I am very independent and can do everything for myself including taking my medications. I hear it is very expensive to subsidize.

I am afraid with my hearing disability I will get somewhere and feel extremely isolated as I have in the past. The children I raised never make an effort to include me in anything but want to pop up and have a say about my future. I'll take a pass on that.

My adopted son I am living with harps on me to get a hearing aid, but does everything he can to hold me back from it. Somehow he thinks I am swimming in money and tells me I have more the he and his girlfriend with them both working. He is delusional. I must look around and discern if there is a purpose for me somewhere. Goodnight peeps. Seeya tomorrow.
 
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Deade said:
Well, I think my stepdaughter is dreaming because I doubt they will consider me needful of assisted living. I am very independent and can do everything for myself including taking my medications. I hear it is very expensive to subsidize.

I am afraid with my hearing disability I will get somewhere and feel extremely isolated as I have in the past. The children I raised never make an effort to include me in anything but want to pop up and have a say about my future. I'll take a pass on that.

My adopted son I am living with harps on me to get a hearing aid, but does everything he can to hold me back from it. Somehow he thinks I am swimming in money and tells me I have more the he and his girlfriend with them both working. He is delusional. I must look around and discern if there is a purpose for me somewhere. Goodnight peeps. Seeya tomorrow.
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Can you google the various accomodations and options available in your area?
 
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Deade said:
I am not sure how to do that. I am slipping out for a doctor's visit in a few and will check back later. :)
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You'll be okay, Deade.......God is with you! And all of us are with you, too in spirit! God bless your day the way only He can! :love:(y)
 
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Here you go, Deade......this one is for you! God has given you His Holy Spirit........the Living Water.......:love:(y)

 
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