How to approach christian woman!??

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joshua1990

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I am just curious I am not ready for relationship right now cus I am still working on my foundation with God but still want to know how to apporach woman right I have never had a problem talking to girls intill I got saved and reborn when I come across christian woman at Church I get kind of nervous should I just start asking ?'s like so when did you get saved ? and start from there ? ask them about their relationship with God? what has God been doin in their Life? I am pretty confident man and God is my first desire and I know when God reveals to me the woman he wants me to pursue he will give me the tools but yea I just asking for men/woman advice on how to pursue a Christian woman the way a woman would want to be pursued I guess I am oready pursueing the woman that God wants me to have bye asking these ?'s lol
 
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gardenbunny

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I personally think, you should just talk to them like you normally would start a conversation with any other chica. And the rest will follow. I have guys just ask the normal questions, where you from? whats your name? etc, then in time all the deeper stuff comes up and the conversation gets better.
 
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SmileySam

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Well, hehe, as long as you go about it respectfully, you'll be alright. Ya know, sometimes it's best to observe the person first, know what i mean? Kind of check out there character and things. Then, if you believe God is leading you to them after a little prayer and such, go for it. ^__^ And about the questions to ask, haha. Just be yourself. I know how tough it is on guys, usually having to make the first move, but hey. Just as if you were getting to know somebody, a friend or something...like that. Introduce yourself, yada yada....
 
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DABEARS8519

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Don't even think about it. Why worry about how to approach some random girl? It doesn't matter if she is Christian or not really, she's still just a girl. As long as you STOP putting her on a pedestal, which is what it seems you are doing, you'll be fine. It doesn't matter if she is gorgeous, intimidating, or whatever... just ignore that, realize she is just a normal person, and go talk to her. Problem solved. If she is really THAT intimidating, then most likely, you'll get even more props for being able to approach her, since other guys would probably be too afraid.
 
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Jullianna

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Just smile, be respectful and real. :)
 
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NodMyHeadLikeYeah

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<---Like so
 
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