I had to break up

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Quirkygirl

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Fenner said:
I think everyone has been through a time when they don't want to be alone and it doesn't mean you want to necessarily be with a boyfriend or girlfriend. You want companionship a friend. There's nothing unusual or wrong about that.

What I would suggest to you is if you have free time, find a place to volunteer. A museum or something or some place you enjoy that will get you around other's and keep you busy
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YES! YOU GET IT! I'm going to be volunteering with the church youth group and I am so excited about that but the trick is surviving until then.
 
Fenner

Fenner

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Quirkygirl said:
YES! YOU GET IT! I'm going to be volunteering with the church youth group and I am so excited about that but the trick is surviving until then.
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I understand loneliness it's hard. Keep your self busy. Is there any where you can go like the library or a mall just to walk around and be out?
 
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Quirkygirl

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Well I am at a Starbucks right now.
 
azlightsout

azlightsout

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Quirkygirl said:
So I had to break up with my boyfriend because he lied about a lot of stuff. I have been having a lot of ups and downs. Today has been crazy. The morning was hard because when I woke up I didn't have anyone to talk to but that changed once my other ex found out I was single. He's been texting me and we have been talking which is nice because I don't have anyone else at the moment. I am embarrassed to say this but I have signed up for some christian dating apps because 1) I can and 2) it's better than sitting around being sad and bitter.

Advice? Thoughts?
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Good luck --
 
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sassylady

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I lost my mind after my divorce and went on dating apps because I didn't know what to do with myself. I wish I hadn't done it, just stupid. I should have been getting closer to the Lord.

There are a lot of men that will say they are Christian and they are NOT. Don't be in a hurry to be with somebody, or get back with an ex. You need time to make sure you can think straight.
 
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azlightsout

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sassylady said:
There are a lot of men that will say they are Christian and they are NOT. Don't be in a hurry to be with somebody, or get back with an ex. You need time to make sure you can think straight.
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Same things with women - people say anything to get what they want - I have met some women who even started to go to church when we started dating - . Its a good thing yes but its truly not them .
 
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