i have too many questions but here another...

  • Christian Chat is a moderated online Christian community allowing Christians around the world to fellowship with each other in real time chat via webcam, voice, and text, with the Christian Chat app. You can also start or participate in a Bible-based discussion here in the Christian Chat Forums, where members can also share with each other their own videos, pictures, or favorite Christian music.

    If you are a Christian and need encouragement and fellowship, we're here for you! If you are not a Christian but interested in knowing more about Jesus our Lord, you're also welcome! Want to know what the Bible says, and how you can apply it to your life? Join us!

    To make new Christian friends now around the world, click here to join Christian Chat.
T

tkgurl

Guest
#1
#1
why is anorexic attractive? it seems like every guy in my school only likes girls that look like they will break a bone if they lift anything! they look sickly. not healthy at all. im not overweight or anything. id consider myself healthy. i exercise everyday and eat good enough:p but for some reason all these girls get all the attention. dont get me wrong, i dont want the attention, but im wondering why they get it. it doesnt make much sense to me.
 
D

Dread_Zeppelin

Guest
#2
#2
tkgurl,

I work in the fashion industry and this is a very big issue. When you get to college age, you'll see that men mature and find women of character rather than their bodies.

We are fed the vomit of the world everytime we start to believe our self worth is based on measurments. Its true that some men flirt with women based on looks, but the ones that are worth it (not shallow) dont think this way and want something MORE. A man ready for a commitment wants a classy lady to take home to mom.

God has a partner for you not based on looks but character. Work on yourself and dont worry about what others think they find attractive about you. When you have confidence in yourself and feel good about who you are that shines brighter than any lipstick and tan.
 
L

lightbliss

Guest
#3
#3
There is a difference of being naturally thin and losing a lot of weight, being anorexic, having some sort mental distortion and/or other eating disorder. I highly doubt boys your age like the visible bone look, maybe skinny girls but bones? IDK.

But it's all about perception. Some people consider being extremely skinny average, perhaps but in no way normal. People (general) only seem to know extremes.

I'm sure centuries ago, many found things, that we today think as average, normal, or okay, to be oddities, freaky, and weird.

But I agree with Dread.

God Bless :)
 
loveschild

loveschild

Banned
#4
May 21, 2009
3,955
25
0
#4
Don't get hung up on stuff. Just have fun!
 
L

Lily

Guest
#5
#5
you are doing ok gir,great actually!!!l...don't worry about it.....its just age....when these guys are a few years older they will realise that being anorexic isn't attractive....just give it time...in the meantime you go ahead and do your thing, grow in character and strength and walking with Jesus-confidence!!!! And yes Questions are always good, so keep asking , learning and growing.... God Bless
 
You must log in or register to reply here.