I am going to recommend a book to Ancilla and anyone else out there, who are all looking for love. Like one person said, looking for love is ok, but without God's hand in it that is not going to be good love. God's love is what we want. And, as much as some of us want love, it just might not be in the card's, and, helping love to come along is a lot like wanting to get married cuz YOUR BIOLOGICAL CLOCK IS TICKING. Sorry, to put caps, well, no, I'm not. I put them so you can understand that God's power OVERpowers all. Look no further than Sarah, barren at 90, and, told by God, YOU, my child, will have a kid. Moses laughed, surely, the whole Israel nation laughed. But WHO had the last laugh? God. And, Sarah, because she had faith in God, never doubting Him.
Oh, the book, it's called , 'Passion and Purity' by Elizabeth Elliot, it's romance and dating, if you want to all it that,...God style
And I do NOT say this to put anyone on a guilt trip. What's done is done and, IF you have a personal relationship with Jesus any mistakes made, if you have faith in Him, will powered over with a greater strength and power, than you can image.
Later, all, God's Love on you I bless, amen