i have just had an epiphany people!!!! There was something nice one of my ex's did for me once!!!! One time when i was really old... and my wife had altimers i used to read her the story of our life, we lived in the same nursing home together.. ! and sometimes she would come to and give me hugs and tell me how much she missed me.... but there was this one time when she started freaking out and screaming I DONT KNOW YOU.. WHO ARE YOU..... and the nurses in our retirement home had to come in and stab her with tranqualizers..........