If you could talk to your younger self what would you say?

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arwen83

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Wow, great question. I don't know...Hmm... would I warn myself of dangers the lied ahead? A part of me would say yes, definitely. But then I think, how would that of changed me? I would not be the person I am today if I didn't go through that pain/trial. But then was it worth it because it made me who I am today? No. Never worth it. I don't know.

On the lighter side:
I would tell myself that things get better, maybe not date so and so, cus he's a dud. And expect more from guys.
 
DuchessAimee

DuchessAimee

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I wouldn't listen to my older self if she had shown up in my life. I was very convinced that I knew what I was doing because I spent quite a bit of my life raising myself. But, for the sake of this game, I will play along.


No, seriously, wear sunblock!

You're actually an extrovert, darling, stop hiding.

Things get better when you're older.

The divorce, not your fault.

Stop fighting against a God you know is real.

Don't date Andrew. Don't even consider it.

Don't quit playing piano, violin, and guitar. You'll regret it.

Keep writing no matter how much it hurts.

Don't bother looking for your dad, you'll regret it.

Nice is different than good.

Be angry, that's fine, but deal with it.

There's nothing wrong with who you are. It's the sin that's a problem, not your personality.

You're a hell of a profiler, when the FBI invites you to join them, do it.

There's gonna be a cute Marine that asks you out. Trust me, go out with him! You'll regret not doing it.
 
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dawn81

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"Don't settle," and "don't take things/people for granted."
 
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arwen83

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I would tell myself "Stay gold"

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The Outsiders reference- If you have read the book or seen the movie: You're awesome, and get the reference. If you haven't: You're missing out. It's a classic.
 
Descyple

Descyple

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If I could time travel back to myself in the 1980's, I would tell myself the following three things:

"Stop wearing M.C. Hammer pants, they're not going to be in style very long."

"Continue listening to 80's music, because 90's music is going to be terrible."

"Even after the next 30 years, we still wont have an answer to the question "Where's The Beef?"
 
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Ugly

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There is not a forum big enough to hold my answer. And its too depressing to think on anyways.
 
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Jullianna

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I forgot this one: Always look out for the lady hiding in the cornfield. She'll have a knife.
 
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LauraNavarro

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You'll never lose, you'll always win.. God is with you..! There are going to be problems, but don't worry, trust Him and always be you!
 
Markum1972

Markum1972

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I would have expressed an absolute NEED for God. I would have told myself to seek Him diligently and not to wander from the path. Stay on the path. Stay on the path. Stay on the path.
 
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OceanGrl

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What would I tell my younger self... "It's a trap!" Wait, no, my life is not Star Wars...

But, seriously, I would probably tell myself that some things are coming up that I should handle differently and to trust in God to direct my path instead of my own silly self.
 
JimJimmers

JimJimmers

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You really will get old, it's not something that the parents made up.

Not everything will happen the way you expect it to, but so what?

There will be many times when the only person stopping you from making the wrong decision is you. But with God's help, you are enough.

Wear sunglasses instead of squinting!
 
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BarlyGurl

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don't marry that guy... er wait... marry that guy but know it's gonna go bad... IDK:confused:
 
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Markum1972

Markum1972

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Jullianna said:
Not kidding. She stabbed me in the shoulder.
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Wow... ya know, I kind of thought maybe you were being serious. There has got to be a story behind all of this. I'm intrigued and also thankful that you are here with us today.
 
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Jullianna

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She was hiding in the cornfield when her bf was arrested. I'm blessed to be here too. :)
 
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Dalight

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My younger self be patient with him. You destroyed all chances of settleing down with the love destined for you. Don't be so quick to grow up. Value your virginity. I promise it will eliminate a lot of your problems. will bring you a miraculous joy. troubles. One more thing,, that baby will change your life. Do not terminate
 
T_Laurich

T_Laurich

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I would tell the child version of me,

"The only thing you need to know is being human can never be explained.

But, You will notice that majority of life is misery, agony, sorrow, hate, disappointment, chaos, and anger. At every pit and fall of this roller coaster you will wish to get off more then the last one. You will cry more heavily then you have ever know. Your pain will surpass what you ever imagined pain could feel like. And your heart will break too many times for you to measure. You will be beaten down and degraded to the point were life seem's like eternal misery.

But, I can promise you this. The once in a life time moments at the top of the roller coaster were you feel weightless, free, whole, happy, excited, and love. Just the memories of those parts will keep you going through to the next climax of this roller coaster. When you hit another downhill. Think back on them, they will rejuvenate all those hibernating emotions and all it takes is a second of love and peace too help the ride seem less frightening.

And don't use the moments were you are climbing back up the hill to think about the bad times. For if you do this, the up hill relief will become a uphill battle...

And I know you don't believe in God, I know you can give me 1,000 reasons why you think he doesn't exist. But trust me. I am you... And I am telling myself that God does exist. Hold onto his word for his word are the straps that will keep you from hitting the ground. No matter how scary this ride becomes remember you are safe. For when you are on God's side he will make sure you make it home. You might not feel happy and joyful the whole time. But waiting for you is your true home. You will look back at this ride just as you look back at every roller coaster ride you have been on. With happiness and joy. You will wonder why you were ever scared.

But what do I know... I am still just a child too...

So don't take my word as gospel take it as a guide and above all... Live Life"

Dear Future me, Please send me a message... :)
 
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