Sure, the guy should have a job but if he's going to school and working hard and the girl he likes is going to school and working hard, that is the kind equally qualified relationship I am speaking of. Sure, it's awful hard (not impossible, for all things are possible with God) to go out with someone who is not with a job and you are with a job. But, there are different ways to look at that, too, like if you are willing to see the nerdy or homely guy is close to finishing his schooling and is close to being a teacher, like, let's just say, for the sake of understanding, YOU ARE A TEACHER already. So.....there ya go.
And, lastly, a lot of times a shy nerdy, homely looking guy can be just in need of a girl to give him a little confidence
Girls, too, NOT just guys over-think reasons for WHY a relationship won't work, when they, really, need to consider all the reasons TO get into a relationship, TO understand what the Lord is leading them TO
Right, cheyO