There is some debate about whether christians should date or marry un-believers, but what if you find yourself attracted to someone who is not a believer and that person is attracted to you too? Do you deny your own feelings and reject them because they aren't christian? I know that a lot of you will say yes, but being a former agnostic myself I know that because I was not brought up in a strong christian family I never took christianity or any religion seriously. It was not my fault that I wasn't a christian. No one ever reached out to me as an adult to tell me about Jesus. My mind was too busy with other things to think about religion and so I didn't find out about Christ until the time God started dropping hints to get my attention.
So, knowing what I said...do you think its fair to reject those who aren't christian just because they aren't christian knowing that maybe no one ever tried to witness to them or that maybe they were given bad information about christianity from somewhere?
I personally don't think its fair to reject someone because they aren't christian. Everyone is the way they are for a reason. I was agnostic because thats how I was influenced to think as I was growing up. How can I go around rejecting people who were misled just like I was? This is why I have no problem dating someone who is not a christian. I will hope that they will convert but I will not write a person off my dating list just because they never accepted Jesus.
So what do you think now that I have told you all this? Do you still think its fair to discriminate against non-christians when dating?
So, knowing what I said...do you think its fair to reject those who aren't christian just because they aren't christian knowing that maybe no one ever tried to witness to them or that maybe they were given bad information about christianity from somewhere?
I personally don't think its fair to reject someone because they aren't christian. Everyone is the way they are for a reason. I was agnostic because thats how I was influenced to think as I was growing up. How can I go around rejecting people who were misled just like I was? This is why I have no problem dating someone who is not a christian. I will hope that they will convert but I will not write a person off my dating list just because they never accepted Jesus.
So what do you think now that I have told you all this? Do you still think its fair to discriminate against non-christians when dating?