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Jullianna

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LOL seoul! I was in the hospital when I was around 25 and married, and the lady in the room with me wanted to set me up with her 17 year old son. Imagine HER surprise! ;)

Anywho..thank y'all for your ideas and encouragment. I'm taking notes and paying attention. I think we just get a little impatient sometimes. I come from a very large family and my eldest brother reminded me recently that the right lady for him didn't come along until he was almost 50. We have to do things God's way, not ours. And just because that doesn't happen when WE think it should, doesn't mean that we're defective. (let's just say that, okay?? haha)

I went waterskiing with friends for a bit yesterday afternoon and met a very nice guy who took me to brunch after church today..and he's just a little older than me. Maybe that was God's way of smiling down and reminding me that HE has it all under control.

In Christ - J.
 
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LOL seoul! I was in the hospital when I was around 25 and married, and the lady in the room with me wanted to set me up with her 17 year old son. Imagine HER surprise! ;)

Anywho..thank y'all for your ideas and encouragment. I'm taking notes and paying attention. I think we just get a little impatient sometimes. I come from a very large family and my eldest brother reminded me recently that the right lady for him didn't come along until he was almost 50. We have to do things God's way, not ours. And just because that doesn't happen when WE think it should, doesn't mean that we're defective. (let's just say that, okay?? haha)

I went waterskiing with friends for a bit yesterday afternoon and met a very nice guy who took me to brunch after church today..and he's just a little older than me. Maybe that was God's way of smiling down and reminding me that HE has it all under control.

In Christ - J.
Thats great Julianna! :D I just hope he doesn't think you're 21 lol just kidding!
 
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Jobe

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I used to be very attracted to older women. When I was around 18 I knew a couple women in their mid to late 20's that seemed amazing. Of course they saw me as just a kid so I never had a chance. I've found though the older I get the less I feel this way. I've seen some gorgeous and fun women in their mid to late 30's but I find myself more attracted now to mid 20's. Weird how that worked for me.

I know that didn't really answer your question, but since I haven't done more than lurked till now I don't know you well enough yet so it'll have to do I guess. lol ;)
 

AsifinPassing

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Could be any number of things really. Lack of availability perhaps. Depending on where you lived, what your interests are, what others interests are. There are several possibilities, but in no way is it rare or a type of deficiency. There's nothing wrong with you, or with guys your age necessarily...it might just be that the right things haven't happened for you to meet a suitable guy.