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LittleBit1987

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MollyConnor said:
I'm sorry that you're going through that. I recently have been through something similar. The men that approach me through PM eventually get banned. I guess they approach lots of women and we all end up reporting them lol.
If a guy tries to mess with you again, I suggest you report him. The mods are usually good with that. If I get one of those messages from some guy in another country that wants to get to know me, they are banned within a few hours. :p

I think people need to realize this isn't ChristianMingle. This is a place to make friends. Now, I'm not saying people can't fall in love on here...of course they can. And that's awesome! But that shouldn't be their main objective.
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I agree... some guys are just... idk. Lol no thoughts form, but that's probably best lol
 
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Stewart

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I think this is a great thread as there could be an undercurrent here...Interesting I have met someone who was a friend via a christian chat and we were just friends yet a part of me found their comments a tad mis leading and if I was an immature male I could easily have thought that she liked me.Yet it was just her way of interacting with people.

Yet if two people fall in love then may god bless them both.Yet I love the interaction with other people and it is good to make friends and I have a genuine interest in their lives and care about the things they are going through.They are my brothers and sisters in Christ and my aim for joining is to interact with others and seek to be a blessing!
 
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Stewart

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Just had a thought from reading the comments thus far and it mostly seems to be about guys only who are the ones who seem to be the culprits here.What about women who may want to be more than friends with a guy here,who just wants to be friends!??
 
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GaryA

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Conversationand said:
Well, if you want a friend, I'd love to be just friends. Like, actual friends. Not "kind of a friend while angling for something else" friends.
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Exactly. An actual friend. A real friend. A true friend.

One who respects the most sacred institution that God created for a man and a woman.


Conversationand said:
Sorry the men on here aren't representing Christ and men the way that they should. :mad:
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DITTO! :mad:

I don't know what has actually occurred - so - I don't suppose I should really say that much about it. However, after reading the OP of this thread - I can't help but think...

"What in the world is wrong with you guys...!?!" :confused:
 
WineRose

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Honestly...I never really noticed your 'flirty' behavior. You're pretty fine to me, tbh... :/
 
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LittleBit1987

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WineRose said:
Honestly...I never really noticed your 'flirty' behavior. You're pretty fine to me, tbh... :/
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Thank you, I appreciate that.

Its sometimes my hormones take over and I don't realize what I'm saying before it's too late...

or throgh PM.... which seems to be happening a lot more lately.

but they all start out innocent... then things are said and so on and so fourth.
 
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LittleBit1987 said:
I feel this is totally necessary on SOooooo many levels.

Most of you all KNOW for a fact I AM married... I Also have a baby boy on the way, due in 9 weeks. I have pregnancy hormones that mess with me and my emotions so I don't always catch things I say before it's too late. So if I seem a little "flirtatious" to you, I'm sorry... that's my personality. I'm a sweet tender hearted person that God created himself, and I can't change that about me. If I seem a little distant... again... pregnancy hormones attacking one again.

And the thing that drives me crazy...

I LOVE making new friends, male or female... I love friends I love my family, I love my husband whom I've been married too too for almost 5 years. We have a baby coming and I would NEVER jeapordize my marriage in any way shape or form. I came to this site years ago cause my marriage hit a rocky road... that lasted for a while and I stuck on here TRYING to get advice and prayer and help my marriage. EveryThing is ok now, MORE than ok... I come on here now cause im bored pretty much..
not to do any harm... or anything else like that. I just want to be friends with folks. But sometimes that's hard to do cause the guys can't just BE "friends" when that's All I want.

So, now that I have made this thread... I am sorry if I "lead" anyone on... or made them think otherwise about my intentions... cause in all honesty... aren't we ALL brothers and sisters in Christ?

Please no negative comments, keep those to yourself as I know some might want too, but I don't have the time or the energy to deal with that right now. My sole focus right now, is going full term with my baby... keep my marriage as strong as I can.. and keep my friendships cause I know I'll need some advice and words of encouragement when times get rough with a newborn.

Thank you.
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Oh man, I hope you are not having problems still. Congratulations on the pregnancy btw! I hope you are feeling ok.
 
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