Ladies how would you feel?

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Roh_Chris

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Jun 15, 2014
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There won't be any reasoning with this person, because he already feels strongly that he is a wonderful person, his ex-girlfriend is a terrible person, and while she doesn't really deserve him he wants her back - or is just upset at the injustice. I don't really think there's much we can help with here.
This.

Question, when you say watching, are you talking like setting up hidden cameras, watching through windows, and following her everywhere just to make sure she's not cheating? Because if that's what you are talking about, then we are not only talking about a stalker but also a control freak who could become a potential abuser, as these are signs. And yes, not only would I drop this so called nice guy, (whose not a nice guy, by the way), but also slap a restraining order on him so fast, he wouldn't see what hit him.

I've had a few friends who have been stalked. And one who nearly lost her sister because the stalker confused her with her sister. All because of jealousy.
And that.


Okay, I think my joke fell flat,
But you know I'm a silly brat,
At least that's what AlaynaJ said,
I'm sure she wants me dead.
 
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6ftmiracle

Guest
#22
No violakat he texted you from a different number as an ex boyfriend because he didn't completely trust you.
 
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6ftmiracle

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#23
Yes grace like rain your dead on right.....
 
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ServantStrike

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#24
The OP makes no indication of either party's age in the post, nor on the profile. Presuming that they are mature adults is more of a rash assumption at this point...
Point taken.

I think in my mind I assume that dating should only be done by people who act like adults (some teenagers do), but then again most don't. Come to think of it it, a lot of adults don't act like adults either.
 

Nautilus

Senior Member
Jun 29, 2012
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#25
She probably doesn't want to be with a wimp.
 
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sassylady

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#26
Learn from your mistake. There's a reason to treat people properly.
 
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Kaycie

Guest
#27
I never would have verbally abused my bf to begin with, and I never would agree to have him be my bf if I couldn't trust him and if he couldn't trust me, and if I had such a good guy I wouldn't attempt to flirt with other guys. So that whole situation wouldn't even happen.
 

cinder

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Mar 26, 2014
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Yes grace like rain your dead on right.....

Psst…. there's a reply with quote feature so we can know what post you are referring to when you say things like this.