Zero.. actually it wasn't her complaint about my post, it was (as i said already, if you'd read) was when she INSULTED me directly. I never insulted her, i was just direct about what she ASKED about, and she didn't like it. Then she did a personal attack against me. Something i did not do to her. And you seemed to think her making a personal insult against me as a good way to treat someone who tried to help her. So how is that 'unprovoked' when she ASKED? Know what you're saying before speaking.
Everyone has a different perspective as to what a direct insult is. I've offended someone in the past without actually meaning to (perhaps I did mean to on a subconscious level). That person turned around and said something that was obviously offensive to me (from my own perspective). You could have a never-ending debate about who offended who first.
Different people react differently. Offenses will happen, intentionally or not. Some people will remain bitter. Some will run and hide. Some will take a quick lesson from it and move on. We do what we feel compelled to do to cope.
My mother use to say we should love everyone. And I've met many people who agree on that point. But I think it would be dishonest to say we like everyone. I would suggest that if you don't like someone or they don't like you, leave them alone. As long as you're not married to them, that shouldn't be too hard to do.