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It's probably that boys your age who love God are attending church regularly, volunteering at the local food bank, doing outreach to the elderly, and hanging out in their rooms studying the Bible and learning how to be the men that you are searching for. If you follow suit and do those things that will make you the woman that such men will want to marry and share a God-centered life with, God will bring you together.
Amen... If you want to find someone who is what you want, be that yourself... Because the men that are like that do not just want anyone... They want someone just as strong as them or stronger ... The men who are saving themselves till marriage do not date to have a girl friend... They date to have a wife...
So ask yourself are you wife material, and if not... What do you have to change...
So ask yourself are you wife material, and if not... What do you have to change...
You are waaaaaayyyyyy to young to get so involved in and fixated on finding a boyfriend. Please just enjoy your friends - both girls and boys. Someone will come into your life when you are mature enough to have a responsible relationship. I didn't date until I was in my mid 20s and even then I didn't make the best choices. 
J
Yes, there are still a lot of good Christian guys around. If you want to be with one of them, you will need to be the sort of girl they would like to be with when the RIGHT time comes. If you are not seeking God yourself, it would be wrong to condemn a guy for not doing it, right?
I would like to share with you one of the best pieces of advice my dad and older brothers gave me: There is the sort of woman men DATE (which truthfully means "have sex with") and the sort they MARRY. Huge difference. Before you go looking for a guy you need to decide which of these women you want to be. If you don't respect yourself, men won't respect you either. They will get what they came for and be gone..... and you might find yourself supporting/raising a little one on your own. God wants better for your life than that.
You have said in other threads that you have been playing with Ouija boards and may even be playing games with God. With all of the love of Christ in me I tell you that you will not win. God always wins. If you follow Him, you can be a winner too. All other ways lead to the darkness you found messing around with unclean spirits. It may seem like fun, but it will drag you down....and all of those who love the Lord would truly hate to see that happy to you.
You have SO much life ahead of you. Keep your head up looking toward a bright future in Christ. Don't let the now hold you back from amazing things. Enjoy being sixteen. You won't get it back. GOOD men will wait.
I hope you understand that I'm not getting onto you at all. Just talking with you as I would my own sister or daughter (if I had one) because Jesus loves you and so do we.
I would like to share with you one of the best pieces of advice my dad and older brothers gave me: There is the sort of woman men DATE (which truthfully means "have sex with") and the sort they MARRY. Huge difference. Before you go looking for a guy you need to decide which of these women you want to be.
If you don't respect yourself, men won't respect you either. They will get what they came for and be gone..... and you might find yourself supporting/raising a little one on your own. God wants better for your life than that. You have said in other threads that you have been playing with Ouija boards and may even be playing games with God. With all of the love of Christ in me I tell you that you will not win. God always wins. If you follow Him, you can be a winner too. All other ways lead to the darkness you found messing around with unclean spirits. It may seem like fun, but it will drag you down....and all of those who love the Lord would truly hate to see that happy to you.
You have SO much life ahead of you. Keep your head up looking toward a bright future in Christ. Don't let the now hold you back from amazing things.
Enjoy being sixteen. You won't get it back. GOOD men will wait. I hope you understand that I'm not getting onto you at all.
Just talking with you as I would my own sister or daughter (if I had one) because Jesus loves you and so do we.
T
Just going to sneak into this thread quietly and stick my hand up - likewise, sister!
I'm single myself and find it really difficult that the majority of guys AND girls around me are just looking for sex - even some that profess to be Christian.
Personally, whilst I do like physical contact (hugging, kissing, cuddling, hand-holding, etc) I am more than happy to wait until I'm married to have sex, but it's quite difficult to find someone who feels the same way, let alone a Christian! But maybe that's just my situation.
All I can say is be strong, and find someone who you enjoy being with and like spending time with. If they do too, then sex should be the last thing on their mind, regardless of whether or not they are a Christian. And don't be afraid to go out with non-Christians. If it works out, then maybe God is at work in them already.
I'm single myself and find it really difficult that the majority of guys AND girls around me are just looking for sex - even some that profess to be Christian.
Personally, whilst I do like physical contact (hugging, kissing, cuddling, hand-holding, etc) I am more than happy to wait until I'm married to have sex, but it's quite difficult to find someone who feels the same way, let alone a Christian! But maybe that's just my situation.
All I can say is be strong, and find someone who you enjoy being with and like spending time with. If they do too, then sex should be the last thing on their mind, regardless of whether or not they are a Christian. And don't be afraid to go out with non-Christians. If it works out, then maybe God is at work in them already.