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This is also why I'm on CC; I need that support. I do have a really good like-minded friend, but I understand that he can't always talk because he has a wife and kids himself. Still, he does take some time out of his day to talk to me, and I really appreciate it.
You're right; I thought I was confident, but right now, I'm really not.
on CHILL OUT: I'm not at all saying that marriage is for everyone. It's not. Even the Bible says this. Maybe I should have mentioned that my desire was intensified because of a certain website saying that for those without the gift of celibacy, marriage is commanded. No it's not. It's just highly recommended. Still, he made it sound like a big emergency. Really, while I really want to be married, my first priority is fellowship. I don't care what your situation is, all believers need fellowship! (Hebrews 10:25) But yeah, I feed off of other's urgency A LOT.
on INTERACT: Yeah, I can't argue with you there. The only thing I can say is that there's not a lot of single Christian girls I can even talk to. I do talk to the other girls, and I get along with them just fine. However, there is this one girl who I really like, and we even talked about a year ago, and became good friends before she started a relationship with someone. Somehow, I lost touch with her, or I was too ignorant to even stay friends with her; my fault. Thursday, I met her again, and found out she's single again! She still remembers me, so I feel good about her. So, I'll definitely need your help in this, because I have big feelings for her, based on our conversations over a year ago. Now, I haven't said anything about dating yet, I just mentioned on Facebook that I was floored that I totally forgot us even talking to each other. Yeah, I was an idiot. Yes, I agree that talking in person is much better than talking online, but we both found out that we both work nights, so we agreed on Facebook communicating.
on ACCOUNTABILITY: I've got one. That like-minded friend I told you about. I haven't told him yet about the girl, since I just reunited with her a couple of days ago.
But yeah, the reason I'm so gung-ho about marriage and all is because I was so frustrated that I saw nothing even starting. I sorta have this obsessive-compulsive mind, and if there's something I care about so much, I tend to go full-throttle. Yeah, this is why I DEFINITELY need all your support in this. Now, as long as I see some progress in any promising relationship, I'm totally fine with waiting. Still, I need all the help I can get.
You're right; I thought I was confident, but right now, I'm really not.
on CHILL OUT: I'm not at all saying that marriage is for everyone. It's not. Even the Bible says this. Maybe I should have mentioned that my desire was intensified because of a certain website saying that for those without the gift of celibacy, marriage is commanded. No it's not. It's just highly recommended. Still, he made it sound like a big emergency. Really, while I really want to be married, my first priority is fellowship. I don't care what your situation is, all believers need fellowship! (Hebrews 10:25) But yeah, I feed off of other's urgency A LOT.
on INTERACT: Yeah, I can't argue with you there. The only thing I can say is that there's not a lot of single Christian girls I can even talk to. I do talk to the other girls, and I get along with them just fine. However, there is this one girl who I really like, and we even talked about a year ago, and became good friends before she started a relationship with someone. Somehow, I lost touch with her, or I was too ignorant to even stay friends with her; my fault. Thursday, I met her again, and found out she's single again! She still remembers me, so I feel good about her. So, I'll definitely need your help in this, because I have big feelings for her, based on our conversations over a year ago. Now, I haven't said anything about dating yet, I just mentioned on Facebook that I was floored that I totally forgot us even talking to each other. Yeah, I was an idiot. Yes, I agree that talking in person is much better than talking online, but we both found out that we both work nights, so we agreed on Facebook communicating.
on ACCOUNTABILITY: I've got one. That like-minded friend I told you about. I haven't told him yet about the girl, since I just reunited with her a couple of days ago.
But yeah, the reason I'm so gung-ho about marriage and all is because I was so frustrated that I saw nothing even starting. I sorta have this obsessive-compulsive mind, and if there's something I care about so much, I tend to go full-throttle. Yeah, this is why I DEFINITELY need all your support in this. Now, as long as I see some progress in any promising relationship, I'm totally fine with waiting. Still, I need all the help I can get.