Mr. Manners here. WHAT things do GIRLS need to have done b4 going on a FIRST date. :)

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GreenNnice

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Well, green, that's a flip of the USUAL WAY that question goes.

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It is. But it takes two offerings of thought and, believe it or not, my ladies, and, no, I'm NOT doing THIS to offend anyone, as the Lord, I pray, leads all my thought processes, christianchat ones included;), so, where was I? Ahh, YES, we're all a-headin toward the biggest date time of the year, in USA, anyway, SUMMER! it's not just us GUYS then that needs help knowing how to prepare for a date, it's you, too, miladies :)

#1 - Don't smell.

#2 - Don't just wear make-up, wear it well, and, wear it right.

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What does 'wear it well' mean, green? You sound kinda mean, green. :(

Again, miladies, THIS is meant to make you STRONGER as 'Mandisa' sings. :)
 
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NodMyHeadLikeYeah

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- No body odor. It makes me wanna vomit.
 
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Aqua_Girl09

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that seems like redundant. no girl in their right mind is going to go on a date smelling crappy unless there is a definite excuse. either something happened and she didn't have time to shower or she doesn't know that she smells. as her date you have no right to comment on either. >_^

as for the make-up. once again its the same thing. the person who is wearing said make-up spend time and effort to put it on. that means she believes it makes her look more appealing. If you don't like it then that's your issue.

THUS the only thing that can be done about this is try helping at girls that are friends and "mention" to them that "their lipstick is a little to bright" or if they smell TELL THEIR FRIEND THATS A GIRL!! that you don't wanna offend her so SHE should tell her friend she smells. something like that. you never know who has a crush on you and something you saw could totally hurt them. ^_^
 
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GreenNnice

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OK, looks like one person upset I started this rude, obnoxious thread ( no, I don't mentin names.) Fair enough, so, let me extrapolate/elaborate on what I mean by....

Yes, too, if you haven't guessed, and I'm sure some of you smarter ones have;) , I was speaking from personal experience with #1 . I met a nice girl I had been chatting with on a Christian Dating website (harm ony) at a theme park. She was so much fun, she was a youth pastor and since I, at thee time, had a job working with youth and youth pastors, we were with things in common. But the timing was not right for this date to amount to anything past just this date regardless of what I am about to say next AFTER first saying she drove 2 hours to see me and was willing to go on one ride there that I did NOT want to go on. But, after, fitful praying, fruitless persuading, I went on it . THAT part truly admired of this girl and not liked as I want to marry (if the Lord ever leads me that way and I am able to make WRONG choic e, kidding, k-I-d-d-I-n-g , :) So, yeah, she was a spunky girl. But she came not wearing any perfume. I just think its important to wear perfume on dates the first time. Yeah, after getting to know a person then why not go perfumeless sometime, test that guy. ;)

Anyway, I am long-winded in that experience recall and sorry of one (at least one and probably many more) offended and I really do only want to be green and of course NICE, the Lord leads, to all you ladies. :)
 
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GreenNnice

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Wearing make-up well simply means not looking gaudy, my best advice, and, who KNOWS, too, I don't, maybe God wants you to wear it gaudy because guy aboutvto meet is genghis khan for, wait!, that's not right, maybe he is gung-ho for gaudy make-upper girls. IDK. But I do know God KNOWS....
So pray to him and if you get some sign from him you are to be a gothic dresser then do it. Paint yourself black, paint little handles on yourself and then a NICE lacquer finish brushing to look mike a dress--oh green, you're totally silly. Ok, so, seriously, not being so silly anymore, wear black make-up and back bootsx and black shirt and, hey, knock yourself out, go all out and dye your red, brownn, or blonde hair PINK. AND, you thought I was going to say , dye it black. Ha. Ha. :)

Ok, enuf on all that, just saying, to look Godly, not gaudy, that is, dress appropriately as, God will have you do, telling you even, if you really, really listen, what to wear, even His choice of....perfume :)

God bless you all on your man hunts this summer. :)

Note: sorry if hard to read my writing sometimes, but I type on a funky little toucyscreen, overly sensitive keyboard on a MyTouch4g that likes to do things like complete words for me. I kniw, I know, I should have a laptop. But I don't now.
 
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ChristianTeen

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In my opinion, it doesn't matter whether or not you are wearing perfume. As long as you are clean (and don't stink) then I don't think perfume is absolutely necessary..but that's just my opinion. :p :)
 
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Rissa77

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AND the girl should dress appropriately. She doesn't want to dress too hot and then attract attention from others, or wear a nice dress to a game or too casual for a dance. Thus, she should probably know beforehand where they are going.
 
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Aqua_Girl09

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i wasn't offended at all. >_< and i TOTALLY understand where you're coming from. i was just putting in the other side of that conversation.

a girl should try to look nice but her every move isn't to please some guy. i personally think there are some guys who look AWESOME in eye-liner. >_< and there are many girls who think that thats a little freaky. lol

it all depends on the person but ultimately a person should be comfortable in their own skin. if a girl isn't used to wearing perfume then she shouldn't. and if shes used to wearing her make-up that way then she should wear it that way. no sense in pretending to be someone shes not and having them find out later that those little things they thought wouldn't matter acutally do. >_<
 
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AnandaHya

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GreenNnice said:
OK, looks like one person upset I started this rude, obnoxious thread ( no, I don't mentin names.) Fair enough, so, let me extrapolate/elaborate on what I mean by....

Yes, too, if you haven't guessed, and I'm sure some of you smarter ones have;) , I was speaking from personal experience with #1 . I met a nice girl I had been chatting with on a Christian Dating website (harm ony) at a theme park. She was so much fun, she was a youth pastor and since I, at thee time, had a job working with youth and youth pastors, we were with things in common. But the timing was not right for this date to amount to anything past just this date regardless of what I am about to say next AFTER first saying she drove 2 hours to see me and was willing to go on one ride there that I did NOT want to go on. But, after, fitful praying, fruitless persuading, I went on it . THAT part truly admired of this girl and not liked as I want to marry (if the Lord ever leads me that way and I am able to make WRONG choic e, kidding, k-I-d-d-I-n-g , :) So, yeah, she was a spunky girl. But she came not wearing any perfume. I just think its important to wear perfume on dates the first time. Yeah, after getting to know a person then why not go perfumeless sometime, test that guy. ;)

Anyway, I am long-winded in that experience recall and sorry of one (at least one and probably many more) offended and I really do only want to be green and of course NICE, the Lord leads, to all you ladies. :)
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lol to each their own. lol my husband hates it when i wear makeup and I didn't have perfume on when we went on our first date but then we aren't typical as people like to tell me. lol. he doesn't like perfume either. he's allergic to a lot of scents. I smelled clean like my soap, does that count? lol
 
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thimsrebma

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Just wanna point out that some women don't wear makeup at all, ever. So would that make you not want to date her because she doesnt like to wear makeup?
 
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GreenNnice

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I am trying to say that you should not smell , the place going does matter as Riss pointed out, and we were going to a theme park. So bring perfume so after perspiring going on rides you can go to bathroom and freshen up. And, hey, GUYS , you too need to be wary of your STANk. LOL. But, yeah, I am just a guy who experienced this kind of date . I want you ladies to go into the date loaded for bear. Wearing make up properly is important or not at all is fine too if face looks fine without it. That answer your question, Msamber? :)

So, yes, dress for the occasion, wear make-up well, or, not at all, and, yes, wear perfume or just smell baby-fresh clean is fine too, but know that baby fresh smell does not last that....long :)


Make-up , let me say this, ladies, is YOUR great friend. It can change your look in a great way, same with doing your hair in a bun or parted or permed.

I want to leave you with this. Nothing is done well without God, who tells us in scripture He is a 'jealous' God pretty sure it says in there a time or two.

So go into the date, first, praying to God, then everything else will go smoothly as your chosen make-up on your face and your choice of scent for perfume. :)
 
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