"My boyfriend wouldn't like it if I talk to other guys" Fake or True?

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Khalil

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This has been a huge question over the years, do women use this as an escape or is it true. :confused::confused:???????????????? Does she really have a boyfriend? And why would they bring it up if you never asked?:rolleyes:?
 
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Ugly

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Not a clear explanation, but if I understand it's pretty much a non-answer. Some women may use it as an excuse, others may say it genuinely. Its that simple. There is no single answer.
 
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toinena

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It might be true. Unfortunately some men are very controlling and needs to have rules for their girlfriend how to interact with men.

To me it is a serious sign of an abusive boyfriend, and I would look that girl seriously in her eyes and say get out of it ASAP.

On the other hand, if a girl is very flirtatious with men, it might be that she feels she needs to distance herself from other men by not interacting with them. Mainly because she is aware of her own weakness. She might say a thing like that because she loves her boyfriend so much she wouldn't hurt him. Maybe she also finds you attractive and needs to distance herself because of that.
 

Demi777

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Oct 13, 2014
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Depends on the boyfriend. Mine doesn't mind when i talk to friends. But some guys are controlling and some woman weak.
But it also is kinda a good escape thing
 
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LittleMermaid

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This has been a huge question over the years, do women use this as an escape or is it true. :confused::confused:???????????????? Does she really have a boyfriend? And why would they bring it up if you never asked?:rolleyes:?
Does it really matter if it is true or not? She obviously doesn't want to talk to you so forget about her.
 

Lynx

Folksy yet erudite
Aug 13, 2014
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Does it really matter if it is true or not? She obviously doesn't want to talk to you so forget about her.
This would be the definitive post in this thread. Nothing else needs to be said, we can all go home now.