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Reformyourself

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SoulWeaver said:
Was looking that up a few years ago too, and I didn't like how psychologists continually try to build excuses for both these groups to the point of twisting science and destroying the concept of accountability. Sorry you made me that way, God, not my fault. I don't think this will fly on the judgment day. There are reasonably different levels of accountability for different situations, but they take that and run off into the left field.
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Completely agree, people have to ‘want’ to change, but most don’t think they ‘need’ to...
 
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Reformyourself

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Gregoryp said:
I too have been researching them, both my parents are narrcissits, I had a girlfriend in primary school who was one, and many more over the years. The one I had to fall in love with also had to be a narcissist, and a particularly bad one. For them its all about attention and a false sense of ego. There self esteem is zero and they have a huge self loathing deep down. There is no cure for them. Even when they try to heal themselves, they soon go back into there same routine and start the mess all over again.
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I can totally relate to your experiences...I still believe that narc’s, psyc’s & soci’s can be healed, even though science says not. Not by themselves though 😐
 
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1christian1 said:
And perhap's , you were into this. Don't blame God for who you are attracted to...
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True. If people are raised by narcs, I s’pose they would be drawn to them throughout life. Don’t know any different 😐
 
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Gregoryp said:
yes, I think the issue is nariccisits are attracted to empaths, like moths to a flame. I have since learnt to spot them a mile away.
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And they you 😐
 
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Gregoryp said:
well, after much consideration I think its best to stay single anyway. Life is so much simpler that way
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agreed, why the drama over trying to hook up. Its like once you find the needle then you have to start threading it. Jesus said something about camels and needles too...something about rich men lol.

well the women chasing after rich men aint gonna enter heaven since if its hard for them then its not going to be easy squeezing a wife in either.

THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH BEING SINGLE. Just tell the narcissists to stop bugging you, leave you alone and be happy.
 
Gregoryp

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SoulWeaver said:
Was looking that up a few years ago too, and I didn't like how psychologists continually try to build excuses for both these groups to the point of twisting science and destroying the concept of accountability. Sorry you made me that way, God, not my fault. I don't think this will fly on the judgment day. There are reasonably different levels of accountability for different situations, but they take that and run off into the left field.
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this is the weird thing, deep down they know they are doing wrong, yet they continue to harm and hurt people, whatever it takes to get recognised and get attention. They operate totally on ego, if it feels good, then do it. There self esteem is almost zero as well.
 
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we once had a narcissist at work that everyone knew he loved attention so when secret santa came round santa gave him a mirror.
 
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Gregoryp said:
Please lord, stop sending me narcissists! All I want is a spirit filled christian! Have they all been caught up in the rapture? Sent to Bermuda for the duration ? Living in Boston?
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:LOL: Why arent you raptured with them? :p I have never understood what narcissists are. Honestly, i havent heard that word much in my entire life, let alone in the past week.
 
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Gregoryp said:
Please lord, stop sending me narcissists! All I want is a spirit filled christian! Have they all been caught up in the rapture? Sent to Bermuda for the duration ? Living in Boston?
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They are on the mission field. Look there. :)
 
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Ruby123 said:
What happened to the McDonalds girl Gregory?
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Mcdonalds girl is acting strange as per usual,. lots of eye contact, shaking of head etc. A look of annoyance last weekend when I seen her. I have no idea of what her problem is, a quick hello and hand over her phone number on her part and its done. Going through this every time I am there is becoming old.
 
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