Needing pointed in the right direction.

[Lanolin]

The other double standard, sorry am on roll is these men who dislike 'fat' women but hello most women will gain weight during and after theyve had children and who is the cause of that?

And how can she continue looking her best if you dont work to maintain that beauty or give her any allowance to buy new clothes and shoes. Beauty treatments are expensive, its not like many women can afford to do them every week but mantaining a female body IS work.

 

[Locoponydirtman]

these are very good questions

most men dont seem to have a clue and seem to think their wives dont deserve to be fed and clothed after theyve had their children either. I recall one christian man saying on another forum that he didnt want to give his ex wife any money because she would spend it on shoes and she didnt work after she had children. well men you try working full time after youve pushed a child out wouldnt you be exhausted looking after a baby 24/7 and you cannot take your baby to work in most workplaces dont even employ you or have adequate childcare facilities. And being barefoot and pregnant, what is wrong with spending money on shoes.

Of course I dont know the whole story but I thought that was ridiculous.

I never wanted my wife to habe a job. Child raising and house keeping is a massive job. I want the best i can supply for my wife. I wish i vould supply even better. She is the one who refuses to wear shoes. I bought her shoes, and boots, several pair.