Nice Guys Finish Last

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Kooper

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#42
A verse that comes to mind...

30 But many that are first shall be last; and the last shall be first.
Matt 19:30 (KJV)

So nice guys that finish last will be first!
I'm always thinking this when I find myself behind a huge line or behind a group of people heading somewhere. Patience is a virtue.
 
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LilCindiLouWho

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#43
Nice girls finish last too it seems, ;)
 
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Ugly

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#46
I disagree that the 'nice guys' need to 'get a spine'. Maybe in some cases, but the funny thing is people say that, yet the women are admitting they turn down the nice guys when they do ask. The reason 'nice guys' feel the way they do is not for lack of trying, but for lack of positive response. So if you really want to encourage nice guys, try saying 'yes' & giving them a real chance.
 
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princessbella

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#47
Mabethe Girls dont trust the nice gus cos some of the bad guys have used and abused pretending to be nice guys telling us what we want to hear so its made us more cautious? just a thought :)
 
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I don't know if its related to the concept of the thread but where I live the rule is pretty much"white guys finish last".
 
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NodMyHeadLikeYeah

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#49
I don't know if its related to the concept of the thread but where I live the rule is pretty much"white guys finish last".

hahaha thats awesome

well not so much really for the white guys i guess ;)
 
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thimsrebma

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#50
I don't know if its related to the concept of the thread but where I live the rule is pretty much"white guys finish last".
Thats really sad. I've never heard of that.

Why do people say that?
 
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Liz01

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#51
I dont agree with this, i think that women prefer nice guys, that nice guys finish last its only what ppl use to say maybe as a custom or publicity on the movies but its not what happens in reallity because we like to be treated in a nice way like nice guys do.
 
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#52
Someone asks why do I say "white guys finish last"? Oh, I am Canadian and our political correctness goes far beyond what most countries are like. You ever see the movies "Save the Last Dance" or "Crazy/Beautiful"... or I guess there are always many new ones where they encourage white girls to have sex with ethnic guys? The same things are very very very big around here. I was at a mall yesterday and it was one black guy with a white girl after another, after another.... but you're not supposed to say anything about it except how good it is. In Canada I suspect the phrase "nice guys finish last" is completely tied to "white guys finish last." Of course, many companies also make it their official policies to not hire white males like our big banks and many retail stores so it is just natural that people dating who they work with end up in the relationships that they do. In my life I have now been gang beaten twice for talking to white girls (both cases the police refused to do anything) and have harassed by campus security and police while in pleasant conversations with a white girls. Yeah, we finish last, we're total trash in the eyes of the authorities who are very eager to wipe out the old Canada for the new Canada.