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I dont think anyone intentionally ignored that question I think you had alot of questions in the original post and we just picked one or two to answer.
I do agree with you about asking the hard questions. THose things are important to ask anyone not just someone you meet online.
Generally online there is a guided protocal in asking questions. Eharmony lets you read each others profiles, then ask pre selected multiple choice questions then short answer or essay questions and then later you can call each other or send email. So maybe for some people they never get to that point online where they are asking those types of questions. Online is actually alot easier to weed people out. In person you may meet a "nice guy" but its usually sugar coated stuff in the beginnig before you relaize who they truely are. Online you can view their profile and see by certain answers to questions who they are. Just like the guy who was messaging me. I new from his initial profile that I wasnt interested.
I do agree with you about asking the hard questions. THose things are important to ask anyone not just someone you meet online.
Generally online there is a guided protocal in asking questions. Eharmony lets you read each others profiles, then ask pre selected multiple choice questions then short answer or essay questions and then later you can call each other or send email. So maybe for some people they never get to that point online where they are asking those types of questions. Online is actually alot easier to weed people out. In person you may meet a "nice guy" but its usually sugar coated stuff in the beginnig before you relaize who they truely are. Online you can view their profile and see by certain answers to questions who they are. Just like the guy who was messaging me. I new from his initial profile that I wasnt interested.
The thing about picking out the liars from the sincere people is picking out details from what theyve written down or previously said and cheerfully throwing them in the conversation unexpectantly, and watching how they react to having things verbally thrown at them (bearing in mind you can see their face). If their genuinely sincere, they will be able to talk about it effortlessly and with passion. If their not sincere, they will verbally stumble and stutter and try to pull their "facts" back together but in a very disjointed manner while putting themselves in a trap knowing that you have figured out their lie or half truth.