Hello Prause, There's a difference between correction and what you are stating. And starting a thread like this is very divisive and immature. Also, I am not ''hanging out" in any one forum. If I see a post that peeks my attention, I will comment on it if necessary. I have posted devotionals that I have written here as well as encouraging words to other singles. As a former single myself once I feel that they need to hear encouragement, and yes, at times, correction from an older brother or sister in the Lord who has been there. I had an older sister correct me so many times, and yes it stung, but I became a stronger believer for it and a better person. Hope you can understand.