Seeking advice on why it did not work out

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angel1243

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Hello all

Me and my boy friend tried very hard to make it work and get married, but we failed twice and are now broken up. we love each other very much but we are amazed why it did not lead to marriage even though we prayed for it to happen and prayed for us to be a good christian couple.

should we just give up or should we keep trying?

Thankyou all!
 
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LightningClap0002

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angel1243 said:
Hello all

Me and my boy friend tried very hard to make it work and get married, but we failed twice and are now broken up. we love each other very much but we are amazed why it did not lead to marriage even though we prayed for it to happen and prayed for us to be a good christian couple.

should we just give up or should we keep trying?

Thankyou all!
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Angel,

In general, it is wiser to seek God's will than your own. It could be that this guy is intended for something far greater. It could be that God desires that you stay single and do amazing things for the Kingdom of God. Maybe there is someone else... Trying is only truly productive when it is God's will.

Pray. Lots.
 
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surrender2God

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Don't stress about it. If it is meant to be, it will come together again.
 
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SocialArtist

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angel1243 said:
Hello all

Me and my boy friend tried very hard to make it work and get married, but we failed twice and are now broken up. we love each other very much but we are amazed why it did not lead to marriage even though we prayed for it to happen and prayed for us to be a good christian couple.

should we just give up or should we keep trying?

Thankyou all!
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I would say keep deliberating over this for the next few weeks or months until you truly feel that you've settled on your final decision.
 
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