Share random advice about dating
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I must conclude this is wiser than just dating advice...!! 
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I notice how today it seems to be about "Finding" the right person in dating. Biblical dating is more about "Being" the right person to serve my future spouses needs and be a God-glorifying husband or wife.
Today intimacy precedes commitment, biblically it's the reverse.
Today our culture tells us [which our culture on dating really began in the 1960's as it is understood in it's doctrines excepted today] that the way to figure out whether I want to marry someone is to act like we are married. If we like it, we make it official. If we don't we still go thru, what I call "Divorce-by-Osmosis" which is to say the emotional and physical pain associated in the break-up still permeates deeply like that of an actual divorce. In biblical dating Scripture guides us as to how to find a mate and marry, and the Bible teaches, among other things, that we should act in such a way so as not to imply a marriage -level commitment until that commitment exists before God.
But I also agree totally with you too.....Don't eat yellow snow! Smile.
.I notice how today it seems to be about "Finding" the right person in dating. Biblical dating is more about "Being" the right person to serve my future spouses needs and be a God-glorifying husband or wife.
Today intimacy precedes commitment, biblically it's the reverse.
Today our culture tells us [which our culture on dating really began in the 1960's as it is understood in it's doctrines excepted today] that the way to figure out whether I want to marry someone is to act like we are married. If we like it, we make it official. If we don't we still go thru, what I call "Divorce-by-Osmosis" which is to say the emotional and physical pain associated in the break-up still permeates deeply like that of an actual divorce. In biblical dating Scripture guides us as to how to find a mate and marry, and the Bible teaches, among other things, that we should act in such a way so as not to imply a marriage -level commitment until that commitment exists before God.
But I also agree totally with you too.....Don't eat yellow snow! Smile.
