Hello, I'm not single --I have found a great Christian man (the one of my dreams who I have been married to now for almost 2 amazing years)...I was in a similar situation once...speaking from experience...I would pray about it, ask God what would be best, see what He wants, also I would encourage you to talk it over with your parents and let them know who you are interested in, they know you very well, because you are there's so they will be able to tell who is right for you and who isn't however...if they seem to not be sensitive to your feelings about this...then I would encourage you to go back to God again...and pray, be patient, and wait on the Lord. God knows the desires of your heart.
I wouldn't make the first move -that is not the job of the lady, the man should make that first move. Be patient, pray, trust God, and know that He knows what's best for you -better than you do. This sounds like a good Christian guy. I'm happy to hear that
Also, I believe you should consider asking yourself, and check your heart and your motives before making a decision. Ask yourself, why do I like this guy? Do I get a long with his parents? Does he get along with mine? (This is very important...that your families mesh well together and get along)...I would also mention...if you are wanting to court this guy just to court him, or just to date him...and have absolutely no intention of marrying this guy --than you have no business even thinking about Courting him (or dating). Why? Because the whole reason of Courting is to see if that person is the person God wants you to marry one day. You've heard me mention Courting and dating and may be thinking what is Courting? Or what is the difference between courting and dating? Well, Dating I highly believe (Which I have unfortunately dated before I met my Husband) practices for divorce...I say that because - you hook up with a guy, then break up, hook up, break up, hook up, break up...and you know what comes next...it's just a repetitive cycle of endless heartbreak...To prevent that I would encourage you to Court. Now, courting is much different than dating...Dating is where you follow your own heart, and make your own decision on who you want to date...when in Courting, Courting is rather praying, and asking God to send you the person that you are to marry. For myself, my dad and I prayed together, I had asked my dad (all the while feeling pretty guilty from my past 'relationships'...and I told him that I really really wanted a Christian boyfriend, if not that...at least a very strong Christian make friend. My dad smiled and said....alright how bout' we pray about this...so we prayed that God would send my way a good Christian boyfriend. And low and behold...about 2 weeks or so later....I met Him! I met the young man (who is now my Husband!) at Church, we got to talking, became friends...and voila! lol...God worked out all the rest!
So, to some it all up, I def. would encourage you to be patient, pray seek God's Kingdom first, and all the rest will follow! (And if you can...talk it over with your parents, or maybe even your pastor or a trusted Christian friend who is mature and can really help you)...Well, God Bless You! I hope this helped some! Sincerely, -Duggar