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ServantStrike

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wisebeardman said:
I aint waiting that long. that would put me 44 years single. and if I am going to go 44 years single I might as well just die single. that is if I even make it that long..
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Me personally, as a single person, I strive to be content enough with Christ that if we died alone, I'd still bless His name. That may not be for every one, but at least for me, I know if I do end up getting married, it would just make me happier, as opposed to completing something that is missing in my life.
 
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tsek

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Hi God's silent in your prayer it doesnt mean He forget you, He still preparing your partner but prepare also yourself till He give you this in His perfect time. Always delight yourself to Him and He will give the desire of your heart. GODBLESS
 
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butterflame

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I found it fun and nice t be single :) , happy rather is the right term. I feel free. LOL
 
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GodIsSalvation

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I been single for about 10 years now roughly lol. And even when I had a girlfriend that was moreso just teenage mellodrama stuff that I am actually quite glad I haven't had to deal with for 10 years and don't ever wanna deal with lol.

I don't know for many years it made me pretty sad at first. For the past few years though I don't really mind, and in fact I think it might be a good thing. I still would like to get married some day I guess, but if that never happens I guess I am content with that also. I would say to the OP and anyone else; maybe try to find reasons why you are happy being single and I would say try to learn to be content being single even if it means you will be single for life. After you can be content being single then maybe you could find a good man or woman like yourself that you could be content being with the rest of your life.

Just my own personal advice I guess, though keep in mind I been single for 10 years and even the short relationship I was in was just a fleeting childhood illusion that brought me no real lasting happiness. So it is fair to say I know nothing about such relationships. Just my perspective I suppose and I hope that perspective can help you in anyway possible.
 
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ww_21

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Be patient.. God will lead the right one to you.. eventually. I have found this If you are constantly waiting and worrying about someone to walk into your life, it will be way more stressful however if you sit back, relax and enjoy single life the person will walk into your life without you even realizing it. :eek:
 
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Sponge_Bob

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just keep looking if you want to find someone simple as that
 
garet82

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well many times we never know about what God wants n His plan.
Just enjoy the time we have, coz who knows your mr. right one n ms. right is there sitting beside you and when you realize it you will laugh '' how can i dont realize it''.

wait it with "' faith " till the time is coming and you will get the best one amen
 
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RememberTheSabbathDay

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No RinTin...our works don't save us..grace saves us...God did say...our works do follow us..so what is this if our works r not included...no works..no faith......
ServantStrike said:
It's not vague at all.

You said our salvation hinges upon works.

Isaiah 64:6
[SUP]6 [/SUP]But we are all as an unclean thing, and all our righteousnesses are as filthy rags; and we all do fade as a leaf; and our iniquities, like the wind, have taken us away.

All our works are as soiled rags. The soiled rags in that passage are not just rags, they are (in modern colloquialism) tampons.
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Nocturnus

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Being single is a toughy, particularly if you're one who enjoys company. You see everyone else who's happy in their seemingly healthy relationships and wonder why you're not. The solitude that follows can be profound, a loneliness that almost screams up at you and stabs like a sword piercing through to the very soul. I speak from experience, and my honest suggestion is that every time this comes around you place your focus back where it should be, on God himself. It's not easy, but it's the right thing to do.
 
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