I hate the catching the bouquet part. I try to sit that part out after the last time I participated. This really aggressive single lady at my church was very proud of her"record" of catching every bouquet at every wedding she'd ever been to. I found out the hard way how she accomplishes it. I caught the bouquet at a mutual friend's wedding, and she rammed into me and violently ripped the flowers out of my hands..then pranced around, proud that she hadn't broken her streak. Women freak me out!