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I thought about posting this as a blog, or posting it in the Christian Singles. I guess it doesn't really matter. Either way your welcomed to talk with me about it.
I went through a really hard period in my life. When I say I went through a hard period, I mean that I went through a period of time that felt really hard for me to go through. I don't know if my experiences happened to you, if you would come away feeling the way I do or did, or not!
I went through a period of many years where I had anxiety. I even suffered a mini nervous break down. But I don't know exactly what caused it, and why. Whenever I try to talk about this, the only thing I got to point too is the fact that I got bullied in school. I felt really small and helpless from around the 6th grade until I graduated high school.
I often wonder how come I have such a hard time making and keeping friends. Both online and offlline. But after my job put me in isolation, the real life relationships didn't seem to matter as much. There is almost nobody around me to talk too! So my social life moved to the internet. If I hunted around long enough, people would come into my online life, and the leave my online life. It was a cycle that I put up with for many years. After getting banned from Facebook. I like how one of my oniine friends, to whom I lost contact with, said about facebook. He prefers to call it "fakebook" because of how so many people make their lives look better then they really are...
Anyways going back to what I was saying about facebook. After I got banned from it, I decided to do a google search for how to keep online friends. That lead me to a social anxiety forum site. I ended up joining it and spending many years on it. For a period of time, I began to wonder if maybe I actually had social anxiety. But after hanging out with those people, I kinda came to the conclusion that I might just be socially awkward. What I mean is, when I'm around other people, online or offline, my anxiety is not that bad! But I notice that I have lots of trouble fitting into conversations with multiple people at once. That seems to be caused my interest and brain speed.
You might be wondering why am I telling you all this? I saw someone on here who says they have "Social Anxiety". Social Anxiety seems to be something that has been becoming more and more people are suffering from. Those people on Social Anxiety Support, were so bad that some of them couldn't even carry a conversation in private messaging! I was like, wow that is bad! I mean, when it comes to real life, I get it! If the people around me are bigger then me, and kinda mean, sure! I feel fear. But just talking in private messaging??? I mean yikes!
I went through a really hard period in my life. When I say I went through a hard period, I mean that I went through a period of time that felt really hard for me to go through. I don't know if my experiences happened to you, if you would come away feeling the way I do or did, or not!
I went through a period of many years where I had anxiety. I even suffered a mini nervous break down. But I don't know exactly what caused it, and why. Whenever I try to talk about this, the only thing I got to point too is the fact that I got bullied in school. I felt really small and helpless from around the 6th grade until I graduated high school.
I often wonder how come I have such a hard time making and keeping friends. Both online and offlline. But after my job put me in isolation, the real life relationships didn't seem to matter as much. There is almost nobody around me to talk too! So my social life moved to the internet. If I hunted around long enough, people would come into my online life, and the leave my online life. It was a cycle that I put up with for many years. After getting banned from Facebook. I like how one of my oniine friends, to whom I lost contact with, said about facebook. He prefers to call it "fakebook" because of how so many people make their lives look better then they really are...
Anyways going back to what I was saying about facebook. After I got banned from it, I decided to do a google search for how to keep online friends. That lead me to a social anxiety forum site. I ended up joining it and spending many years on it. For a period of time, I began to wonder if maybe I actually had social anxiety. But after hanging out with those people, I kinda came to the conclusion that I might just be socially awkward. What I mean is, when I'm around other people, online or offline, my anxiety is not that bad! But I notice that I have lots of trouble fitting into conversations with multiple people at once. That seems to be caused my interest and brain speed.
You might be wondering why am I telling you all this? I saw someone on here who says they have "Social Anxiety". Social Anxiety seems to be something that has been becoming more and more people are suffering from. Those people on Social Anxiety Support, were so bad that some of them couldn't even carry a conversation in private messaging! I was like, wow that is bad! I mean, when it comes to real life, I get it! If the people around me are bigger then me, and kinda mean, sure! I feel fear. But just talking in private messaging??? I mean yikes!
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