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The more I think about it the more it makes sense that God probably wants me to stay single. Every guy I have ever been interested in has gone out of my life as fast as they came in - quite suddenly.
Maybe it is forever, maybe it isn't. I know I'm young, so I have time to figure things out. But honestly, I don't really have much interest in getting a boyfriend anyway. At least, not now. It used to hurt, seeing my friends getting into relationships and even getting married (the disadvantage of being part of a homeschooled community is a lot of them get married off pretty quick when they're around nineteen and early twenties.). But I don't even care anymore, honestly.
Maybe this will change, maybe not. We will see.
Maybe it is forever, maybe it isn't. I know I'm young, so I have time to figure things out. But honestly, I don't really have much interest in getting a boyfriend anyway. At least, not now. It used to hurt, seeing my friends getting into relationships and even getting married (the disadvantage of being part of a homeschooled community is a lot of them get married off pretty quick when they're around nineteen and early twenties.). But I don't even care anymore, honestly.
Maybe this will change, maybe not. We will see.
I know I am 60 but listen to me please....I got married at 17 advice DON'T DO IT. You are young and have your whole life ahead of you and I so wish I had not gotten married that young and gone on to college and gotten an education and some sort of direction in my life and now I am 60 retired and still wishing I had picked a career of some sort.
Half or more of your friends getting married young at some point will probably wish they hadn't and may even end up in divorce somewhere along the way. Best thing is while you are young is to build a relationship with God and stick with Him as He will then be the guide of your life and lead you into the straight path walking with you the whole time. Learn now to listen to His prompts and trust Him to give you a full life. Might not be an easy one but it will be a rewarding one knowing you have followed Jesus where He is leading you.
Seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness and all these things will be added unto you. I sure wish I had would have saved myself a lot of heartache and troubles. I am now learning lessons I should have learned back at your age. You have plenty of time for relationships but just concentrate on building your trust and faith in God now. Continue to pray and read the Bible and learn what God has to say and apply His directions to your life and walk with Him daily and someday you will walk right into heaven with Him.
Half or more of your friends getting married young at some point will probably wish they hadn't and may even end up in divorce somewhere along the way. Best thing is while you are young is to build a relationship with God and stick with Him as He will then be the guide of your life and lead you into the straight path walking with you the whole time. Learn now to listen to His prompts and trust Him to give you a full life. Might not be an easy one but it will be a rewarding one knowing you have followed Jesus where He is leading you.
Seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness and all these things will be added unto you. I sure wish I had would have saved myself a lot of heartache and troubles. I am now learning lessons I should have learned back at your age. You have plenty of time for relationships but just concentrate on building your trust and faith in God now. Continue to pray and read the Bible and learn what God has to say and apply His directions to your life and walk with Him daily and someday you will walk right into heaven with Him.
Still trying to do some match making for you...I will find the Ideal partner for you...on a more serious less goofy Deep thoughts of Consciousness...seriously though...I recommend you pick up a copy of The Sacred Search by Gary Thomas. He gives his account as to many in Christian society today believe God has set aside a soul mate for them etc...Mr. Gary Thomas Emphasizes the complete opposite. It's not about "who" the Soul Mate you marry but why you Marry! Think Sole Mate instead! I've read it several times and it's dog eared and highlighted and underlined all over. Very insightful and great perspective 
