Why do people so often assume that if I come against something that was said, it must be because I took it personally? I take very few things personally, and I don't need to be personally offended in order to tell someone that they're off base. If something was a nasty/untrue/rude thing to say, then it was a nasty/untrue/rude thing to say, regardless of at whom it was directed. >.< Why is that so stinkin' hard for some people to understand?