Wow! Just had a late dinner with my oldest kid who is home from college. Great talk. A lot of healing in our relationship (she had blamed me for a lot of things having to do with the divorce but is now seeing them from a different perspective). In talking over some unresolved issues with her, I had to check myself from saying too much; I didn't want to badmouth her mother or appear manipulative. I pray that God continues to restore and heal.