My sister told me this morning that I live a charmed life. She said, "Everything comes easy for you, people are always rushing to your rescue, and you got all the good genes. How am I supposed to compete with that? It's easier for me to just not have to be around you."
This was in response to me calling her to ask if she'd want to help me put together a family party for my birthday next month. But she's been ignoring/avoiding me a lot lately, and I couldn't figure out why...I thought maybe she was just busy with her wedding plans (takes place at the end of August, a couple weeks after my birthday).
She's pretty upset with me. She told me it just figures that I would try to "trump" her wedding by having a get-together for my birthday.
What?!
I don't get all the bitterness towards me. She ended the conversation with "Just once, I'd like to see you fall flat on your face and not get back up. Then maybe you'd be more human."
I think this means I'm NOT invited to the wedding after all...?
I am super confused.
Sis, the grass is always greener across the street, and if greener it takes a bigger septic tank
Anyway a short tid bit, for you my older Brother the one that is still alive, reported this same type of thing to me, and he at that time was wealthy, married, kids, great paying job, all was right there for him, and he earned it, worked hard for it
One day I went with him on an emergency call for his Job. On the way he tells me how he was envious of me, and I replied with what?
I said you have a 250,000 dollar home, wife, kids and all is laid out perfectly for you. I travel from one place to the next, have no home, no wife, no kids, and you are Jealous of me? I am Jealous of you
So Sis don't know what to say except your Sis for some reason feels unimportant, kind of like Robert in "everybody loves Raymond" Ask God for God's words to be spoken through you as you did to Mom, and let her be shown no one is better that the other by God through you. maybe, you decide and thwart the enemy again that is the one planting these thoughts of Jealousy in her head
I was the and am me the baby of the Family of five, and was and am spoiled to the other two siblings left. I was treated as very special, spoiled little brat, I could get away with murder as is what they saw
Al, that is finally changed to see truth that, that was not true, so Sis, trust and go forth as led when led in peace to say to her what God through you wants to say, not what you feel to try to say, you will get through, not soon necessarily, yet soon. We are all that beleive in a fight, mthat we mi8ght need to learn the art of fighting without fighting you think?