I've been thinking alot about the "emotional unavailability" thread, wondering whether this was truly an issue for me, and I don't believe it is. I have loved and learned, but those relationships are over and they aren't coming back. There might actually be someone out there who is even better suited for me than those two were, right?
I truly believe it is the breakup thing that gives me pause. OTHER PEOPLE think you should get out there and date, blah, blah, blah, but you know in your heart that you won't love/be happy with just anyone. To settle like that seems incredibly foolish and selfish.
I'm a risk tasker, yes, but I take CALCULATED risks, not foolish ones. Unless someone comes along who really stands out above the crowd to me, I'm simply not willing to take the risk of hurting anyone else, as I have those I've dated for fun just because other people thought I should. Does that make sense to anyone but me?
Maybe not... haha