The Good The Bad The Best The Worse of Being a Single!

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Groundhog

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Good: You're not tied down, and you can continue to hope for your dream girl.

Bad: You're left out of all the couples-centered events or classes at church (a particular sore point with me).

Best thing: You get to spend your money on yourself, instead of expensive dates.

Worst thing: Knowing that if things don't change, you will grow old and die alone.
 
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Kenoragirl

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i just went to a bridal shower last night.... it was nice! but at the same time, it really sucked. But I do NOT have a bad attitude about it!! :p
 
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missy2shoes

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hehehehe.........I have been a bridesmaid sooooooooooo many times..........................*eye twitch*
 
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Kenoragirl

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I've been a bridesmaid once... but i've been other things in soooooooooo many weddings: candle lighter, pianist, guest book attendant, decorator.... craziness!
 
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SamIam

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hehehehe.........I have been a bridesmaid sooooooooooo many times..........................*eye twitch*

I've been in so many weddings... it gets depressing after awhile lol
 
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missy2shoes

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awwww hahaha......wish I knew how to play the piano.....*sigh*.......gahhhh single and unable to play the piano....could my life get any worse??????????? :p :p
 
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SamIam

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It could......... you could be single and not have any fingers
 
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missy2shoes

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I've been in so many weddings... it gets depressing after awhile lol
.....we could like hire each other as dates........like you come to my next wedding event as me date....and I'll do the same for you hahaha
 
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Kenoragirl

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it gets very depressing.... in one year i had gone to/ been in 10 weddings!! I'm happy for the ones getting married... but couldn't they just elope?! haha
 
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SamIam

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.....we could like hire each other as dates........like you come to my next wedding event as me date....and I'll do the same for you hahaha

sweet thats perfect!!! i knew me and you were MFEO lol neither one of us are virgins which seems to be a big one...... we both have slight mental illnesses a match made in heaven!
 
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missy2shoes

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it gets very depressing.... in one year i had gone to/ been in 10 weddings!! I'm happy for the ones getting married... but couldn't they just elope?! haha
ya know what?....I'm seriously thinking about eloping one day lol.....I get nervous in front of people....so eloping might be my only option lol
 
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Kenoragirl

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ya know what?....I'm seriously thinking about eloping one day lol.....I get nervous in front of people....so eloping might be my only option lol
hahahaha... me too!
 
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SamIam

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Im seriously thinking about eating another pudding..... Its caramel on the top and vanilla on the bottom!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
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missy2shoes

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ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh don't do that to me Sam..........food is all I have left!!!!! lol
 
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SamIam

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you have me and FOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOD
 
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missy2shoes

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hahahahahaha.......I just need the foooooooooooooooooooooooooood :p :p :p
 
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Knightjester

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The Good: Lots of freedom

The Bad: Watching Soap Opera alone, LOL
 
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JLBSTORM

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Good about being single: No one to lie to me, get the WHOLE bed, less messes to clean up, less laundry, no one telling me I am wrong..lol

Bad: Miss being held, someone to be romantic with and talk w/me, someone to depend on and know is there when I am need them, miss kissing...
 
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Dread_Zeppelin

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Good: I can do whatever I'd like with my time
Bad: Nothing's bad, because I have everyone i've ever cared about in my life and I dont need to be fulfilled by any man.
 
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kiwi_OT

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I finally thought of something good--having the bed all to myself. :p
Im sorry lol, I do not agree with that. Sleeping by myself really depresses me sometimes cos it gets cold easily and theres no one to keep you warm and snug.

The best thing about being single is feeling more free. Being single Ive noticed has dramatically improved my relationship with God. Almost where it feels like hes rewarding me for giving up my last relationship in favour of him (which is what happened).