The real me- no really!

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Mitspa

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#61
Now Mistpa...I have no clue if that is her or not. However she looks age appropriate. I'm 42 and look at least 10 years younger if not more. You do not look 46, you also look a good 10 years younger.
oH .. you look 32 to me :) but I can only see your eyes...nice :)
 
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MissCris

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#64
I've been informed that My avatar pic is deceptive, in that it's two years old and doesn't show my whole face, plus it's black and white. So, in an effort to be more honest, I'll change it to what I REALLY look like.

*sigh*
 
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Mitspa

Guest
#65
I've been informed that My avatar pic is deceptive, in that it's two years old and doesn't show my whole face, plus it's black and white. So, in an effort to be more honest, I'll change it to what I REALLY look like.

*sigh*
Did you have an accident? you seem to be missing some fingers?
 
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skylove7

Guest
#66
Thank you, you effusive and generous lady ;)
Lol...Thank you. Cris I posted a similiar message twice...because I read your story 3 times lol.
I'm sorry I ramble too much
Sigh...lol
God bless everybody
 

AsifinPassing

Senior Member
Jul 13, 2010
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#68
I can sort of relate, Kaycie, but I've decided to change things up. I put my picture up as an avatar, and have several others in my albums. It's different for me, being a guy (in the safety aspect), but I figure letting people get to know my soul without misconceptions of my appearance might be slightly helpful.

Soeaking from personal experience, and more in dating connotation than friendship, it's super disappointing getting to know and
like someone non - physically only to find them completely unattractive physically. -_-0

I know it sounds fickle, but I've grown up enough and dealt with the hurt, rejection, and my own touts and feelings enough to say that while what you look like shouldn't matter ideally, it does in our world. Especially when we're talking more than friendship.

Anyway, sorry for that rabbit trail... Just wanted to say originally that I feels ya, KC, and can relate to your experience. Not sure what the 'right' answer is, but i've recently changed my approach. *shrugs*