No more being fussed at for not doing this, that, etc. but instead I did this, that..
no more wishing for sex that could be happening but being withheld for a power-show
no more having to put up with her friends that I had no choice in picking, yet they pick me apart. I'm not THAT bad...
no more 20-something stepkids (2) laying around doing nothing, laughing that "wish our dad could see this lol!" while I'm doing all the cleaning/dishes/laundry. (did no good to complain, or tell their mom.)
can watch whatever I want, no whining. Including that terrible thing called sports, car shows, "Miss America Pageant" (haha)
She would go to work and brag, however if my team won. (?)
But I got through it all long enough to get custody of my 12 yo. girl (the law in my state)
no crazy. just peace. and quiet.
I know I sound terrible now. But after 20 years of it all her way, and living through a a stroke, It's now my time. And God's time. She had no time for that.
I am looking forward to meeting a good compatible Christian woman to share my life with someday. But I'm really in no hurry.