The Tights! The Shorts! The Skirts! Aaaagh!
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Guys, women dress provactivly for one of three reasons:
a. There doing it for attention
b. It's suppose to look and they want to fit in and look cool
c. They don't know better.
And as many of you men would like to think the main reason would be (C.), it's not. Girl's are mainly doing it for attention, even if they don't want to admit to themselves. They notice what attracts you, they see what society says will get a man's attention, and so, they dress accordingly. Then it's because they want to look fashionable and cool. Women have this desire to fit in and belong. So, they tend to do what is the norm. Both types will dress like this, even after they are married. So, let that kind of sink into your head.
If you want this to change, well, then you are going to have to put some blinders on and start looking for the women who are dressed modestly. Yes, the vast majority of the fault belongs to young women who dress this way. However, your actions can help in changing this.
a. There doing it for attention
b. It's suppose to look and they want to fit in and look cool
c. They don't know better.
And as many of you men would like to think the main reason would be (C.), it's not. Girl's are mainly doing it for attention, even if they don't want to admit to themselves. They notice what attracts you, they see what society says will get a man's attention, and so, they dress accordingly. Then it's because they want to look fashionable and cool. Women have this desire to fit in and belong. So, they tend to do what is the norm. Both types will dress like this, even after they are married. So, let that kind of sink into your head.
If you want this to change, well, then you are going to have to put some blinders on and start looking for the women who are dressed modestly. Yes, the vast majority of the fault belongs to young women who dress this way. However, your actions can help in changing this.
O
do not count on the world to ever help we are not like them of the world we do not need to dress like the world,i grew up on a major tourist beach this was never a problem 4 me as a christian guy i went too swim in the ocean,women not modest were of no interest to me its still that way the ocean is prettier than women wearing very little....
J
Women are bombarded with sex as much as men, maybe more. Television, magazines, music, the Internet, etc. tell us that sex is the way to get a man's attention. The problem is that many women don't understand the sort of guy one attracts with that sort of bait and the consequences thereof.
Bottomline: If you want to be the lady a guy takes home to meet his mom, dress like he could.
Bottomline: If you want to be the lady a guy takes home to meet his mom, dress like he could.
G
Keep in mind, naut, yes, that s correct, 'your eyes,' but without Him (His power), christian or not, there is NO escape a attracted-to girl's harpy (think 'mythical beast') charm.
and stony glare.
2 Cor. 7:10 , or, whatever is verse that says: No temptation has overtaken you that is not common to man and, with whereof there is temptation God will provide a way out.
and stony glare.
2 Cor. 7:10 , or, whatever is verse that says: No temptation has overtaken you that is not common to man and, with whereof there is temptation God will provide a way out.
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I'd reckon it's a result of the feminist movement to try and bring equality to the genders. "Men can wear whatever they want, we should have the same right too!" Oh but ladies, how often do you fail to realize the influence your risque dress has on men? You may not be turned on through visual, but we sure as heck are.
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I believe men need to stop excusing their "problem" by saying its women's fault they struggle with lust by dressing inappropriately BUT I totally think women need to stop thinking its ok to wear whatever they want... Personally I think lots of the time if a women is dressed inappropriately and causes a guy to have "thoughts" its the womens fault.. but then its the mans problem if he chooses to keep thinking or act on those thoughts... thats my opinion anyway. I agree with Rebecca St. James.. [video]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jq1dnBRZ7EE[/video]
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Wait until you see the behavior of provocative dress through the eyes of God and discover the immaturity behind the reasons they do this and the idea of it sickens you
As well as acknowledging the fact that in the Lords eyes as well as practicing the behavior of repsect for a partner that even looking detracts from the appreciation which should be reserved strictly for one person
At that point the wandering eye will be gouged out.
God will liberate you, you'll get there
As well as acknowledging the fact that in the Lords eyes as well as practicing the behavior of repsect for a partner that even looking detracts from the appreciation which should be reserved strictly for one person
At that point the wandering eye will be gouged out.
God will liberate you, you'll get there
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