Things To SAY On Your First Date

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AndyMaleh

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To be honest, I don't worry about it. God decides these things, like whether we're a match or not. It's just enough of a pleasure for me to be socializing with a new person, whether it works out or not. If it's not a match decided by God, there is nothing that the woman and I could do to change that. If it is a match decided by God, no amount of mistakes we'd make could take that away. So, there is never a true reason to worry. We could always just enjoy ourselves and relax on a date.

Godspeed.
 

Kireina

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To be honest, I don't worry about it. God decides these things, like whether we're a match or not. It's just enough of a pleasure for me to be socializing with a new person, whether it works out or not. If it's not a match decided by God, there is nothing that the woman and I could do to change that. If it is a match decided by God, no amount of mistakes we'd make could take that away. So, there is never a true reason to worry. We could always just enjoy ourselves and relax on a date.

Godspeed.
I agree...but if we can avoid messing it up I think,it is nice also... the person will discover everything about you in the future anyway 😆 a nice first impression is fine on your first date I guess 🤔
 

Kireina

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would the girl wanna see the guy for a second time ?
Good question 😃 I don't know that is why he is asking her... but asking is fine... You won't know if you don't /won't ask...
 

cinder

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If it's not a match decided by God, there is nothing that the woman and I could do to change that. If it is a match decided by God, no amount of mistakes we'd make could take that away.
Just wondering how that philosophy would apply to Bathsheba and Uriah and David. (Not that I think you'd be the type to go after your friend's wife, but if you're going to make absolute statements I'm going to throw in the messy examples so we can flesh out what we really believe here.)
 

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could you please pass the sugar... honey😊
 

Desdichado

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It's interesting how I've gotten more straightforward about these things after dating non-American women.

American men have let themselves get fooled into thinking women don't want to hear stuff like this, so we have this tendency to beat around the bush.

Can I see you again pretty girl?
 
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It's interesting how I've gotten more straightforward about these things after dating non-American women.

American men have let themselves get fooled into thinking women don't want to hear stuff like this, so we have this tendency to beat around the bush.
do you know a lot women, whom you get along with ?
 

Desdichado

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I'm not bad at dating. Long-term relationships are where things tend to go downhill for one reason or another.

do you know a lot women, whom you get along with ?