UN-RUIN A DATE OR ANY RELATIONSHIP!

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Does simply saying kind words uplift you?


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Maka

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Baby, I was wrong, I'm sorry.
 
Jun 24, 2017
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The latter part of this has stuck with me.. usually men say that dress looks good, great, amazing etc on you.. I've never heard anyone say you make that dress look... That's another level Sir..
Oh, I bring the heat. :cool:
 

slave

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I really, really love you, my darling. In fact, I broke this thread's 6-word-rule just to talk more about you. That's how much I love you.
Feel free to sacrifice my rules to love darling, in fact, you can do it without even announcing it if you would like. Smile.:rolleyes:... what's mine is yours sister! Love freely!
 
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CaptainGoat

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I will give you a go of my train!
 

slave

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"I love sacrificing for you, Honey!...."



"....submitting keeps me loving you always!"
 

slave

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Words do not mean a whole lot if the person in the relationship switches back and forth to cutting down,compliment,cutting down,compliment.It will not work.

When people are in a relationship they have to watch what they say,for if they say one wrong word,or phrase,the other person will think why did they say that to me,and it will never be the same.

My aunt got a divorce,and I was wondering why,which they got a computer,and she was saying basically that he is a dummy for not picking up on it as fast as she would like,and you know how people get frustrated over that,and she probably insulted his intelligence,and then he fired back she was too old for him,did not look good enough,and other insults,and after an extended period of that they got a divorce.

People have to watch what they say,and if they say something wrong,then they say something nice might cheer the person up a little,but they will still have that in their mind about the time they dogged them out,and think it could happen again,for even someone deceitful,and mean,will still say things nice once in a while for their advantage,but will go back to dogging to suit their personality.

And the same for actions if not right would cause the person to have the same view,why did that person do that,and it will never be the same.

So unruin date,or any relationship,who knows,but people know some people can change,but with the divorce rate,and people splitting up,there is a whole lot that do not change.
MORNING PIT STOP:

It is easier to ruin a date or be critical than to be positive and hopeful isn't it? And we know this is not by accident. But as Christ is the light He says we are also the light in as much as we walk in the light. And He says it in Scripture without doubting this. So, I think it is a matter of exercising our light if it is within us. Our minds must also be controlled by the light for, Wherever your treasure is, there the desires of your heart will also be. The ironic thing about that passage is if you reverse it it also works: If we place our desires in Christ He becomes our treasure. I used to struggle memorizing, and as a result, I said to myself, "I am just a person who can't memorize well." And for years I continued to struggle memorizing. Then, God got ahold of my heart and mind on this, and I started laying it in His hands, I actually verbally said out loud, "I am a great memorizer of His Word." Now, I said that back then, still not sure that I could, but by me saying it I was encouraged to continue in faith in not doubting God would help me. And now I memorize well, and I teach classes in discipleship with lots of memorizing verses. Thats praise to my Father by the way!

"Whether we live, therefore, or die, we are the Lord's." (Romans 14:8).

Kindness comes from our disposition in Him. Not our feelings. For many times we will not feel like kindness. Kind words come from the heart and mind of Christ which exemplifies the fact that kind words lift Him up, as well as each other up. We must never lay stress on the technical side of Christianity but always on the fundamental fact that we are Christ's and that all we do is unto Him. We live, "unto the Lord," and we die, "unto the Lord."

I have learned that we must never seek to persuade those who differ from us merely to think and act as we do. Our one aim must be to lead them closer to Him. We are not working for outward correctness, or conformity to certain good things, but for a closer relationship to God Himself. Has a brothers views that differ strongly from mine? Let it be my first concern that both he and I are doing what we do as "unto the Lord."

Where that is our goal notwithstanding outward divergencies (spiritually), all is well between us. The Lordship of Jesus Christ is the central point of our disposition. Kindness comes from the fruit of that, and kind words come from our will applying that disposition in earnest realness. If, in truth, He is your Lord, and He is my Lord, then He Himself will adjust the other things.

[HR][/HR] "Thank You Lord, for my Disposition!"

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"I love you; for loving me!"

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"I love them; as You love."

 
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Tinuviel

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"Why is it you love me?"

"For reasons too many to count."
 
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Ariel82

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All I just want time with you.
 
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Ariel82

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My crazy cousin tells his equally crazy wife: "You're the scum on my pond." I think it is his way of telling her that she makes him complete :p
Lol that made me laugh, nice!
 

regularguy858

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"We've Only Just Begun" by The Carpenters! Very nice! Thank you for sharing that with us!
 
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Galatea

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"How Do I Love Thee?"- Barrett Browning
 

slave

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I give up! Praise Your name!
 

slave

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I did the dishes anything else?