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Well it's not important to this man. 
I have my moments when I hope for the perfect partner but then I shake out of my day dream and come back to the real world, and I realise once again it really doesn't matter.
It would be nice for sure but I don't wish for the impossible, and that is to marry a woman who has never sinned, most christians who lose their vriginity have compromised themselves physically and that they regret it proves to me they were not compromised emotionally and did not give away that unique emotional connection, and while I can say it's only theory I'd say without that emotional connection sex is just an empty experience that leaves you feeling worse, like many things intended to be pleasurable but don't when done for the wrong reasons.
I think some sins carry much more judgement than they should, and this is one of them, as a man who is waiting I would like a wife who has waited also, but I would love her no less for it because that experience helped make her the woman I love, and when marryng someone you agree to love them completely, not just the parts of them that didn't stray from the path.
Too many virgins are strict in their absolute intention to wait for a vrigin spouse and too many who aren't virgins get defensive about it when the issue is raised, I say only that I cannot control the love I feel and who I feel it for, so if and when that women comes we'll deal with it together, will not let mistakes from either of our pasts destroy the love we have.
I have my moments when I hope for the perfect partner but then I shake out of my day dream and come back to the real world, and I realise once again it really doesn't matter.
It would be nice for sure but I don't wish for the impossible, and that is to marry a woman who has never sinned, most christians who lose their vriginity have compromised themselves physically and that they regret it proves to me they were not compromised emotionally and did not give away that unique emotional connection, and while I can say it's only theory I'd say without that emotional connection sex is just an empty experience that leaves you feeling worse, like many things intended to be pleasurable but don't when done for the wrong reasons.
I think some sins carry much more judgement than they should, and this is one of them, as a man who is waiting I would like a wife who has waited also, but I would love her no less for it because that experience helped make her the woman I love, and when marryng someone you agree to love them completely, not just the parts of them that didn't stray from the path.
Too many virgins are strict in their absolute intention to wait for a vrigin spouse and too many who aren't virgins get defensive about it when the issue is raised, I say only that I cannot control the love I feel and who I feel it for, so if and when that women comes we'll deal with it together, will not let mistakes from either of our pasts destroy the love we have.
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