Waiting for marriage

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Kiara

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Recently I am finding it hard to wait for sex until marriage. It seems so difficult lately, even though I don't have a boyfriend. Any suggestions?
 
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GreenNnice

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Recently I am finding it hard to wait for sex until marriage. It seems so difficult lately, even though I don't have a boyfriend. Any suggestions?
Good, princesskiara, you keep doing that, you are a precious girl of our King :)

Keep your mind focused on Him, and, doing things that you enjoy and constantlly asking God to challenge you to do things that will bring glory to Him. God hears our prayers :) Follow Him, have faith in His direction for your life, and, even when you feel swayed, deceived, STAY true to Him, fleee guys that ask wrong things of you, guys of God KNOW and will ACT in such a way that is DIFFERENT from other guys. They just WILL. But, you must be strong in Christ and your life MUST be filled with Christ, or, you WILL be swayed.

By the way,
I'm waiting, too, and, it's not been easy, I've been in 'swaying' situations but God's ALWAYS got me through, my hope of living and dying is in Him, I pray He keeps me strong in ALL situations. This HAS been a prayer of mine since I was as young as I can remember, I am waiting on Him for love because He is Love and He first Loved me, I want to show Him my Love for Him in all ways that I can, and, I'm not saying I'm perfect, not even close, but, in this way, He's kept me strong. I AM following my maker who is my creator who is Lord, who has risen from the dead, and, is over all, who is all and all :)
 
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Kiara

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Thank you so much!!!!
 
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colalella2891

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It's definitely not easy... I'm a virgin, but that doesn't mean i'm not struggling with lustful things. Just don't give in to it... No matter how much guys you get attention from, don't give in. Keep those values. Your virginity is sacred, and your future husband will be thankful that you waited. Waiting until marriage is also what God intended, so you're not only honoring your future husband but you're honoring God as well. Don't give in.

Another thing, christians who don't wait until marriage regret it. Just don't do it. Know that you're not alone with this. Pray about it and ask God for help.
 
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MartyrNdaMaKn

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My sister in Christ I pray that God would fill you with his strength and provide you with a clear mind to put your flesh into submission. Keep up the good fight and God Bless
 
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Ugly

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Personally, i suggest getting rid of tv, all secular reading material, secular music, radio, internet... and locking yourself in your house and never going outside. And maybe even phone if that poses a problem. That should be a good start, hahaha. Culture makes it very difficult to live without sex. As if our bodies own natural desires aren't problem enough. Those bunch of heathen buttheads. =P
 
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fourleaf

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alot of people wish that they waited until marriage...my advice to you is don't rush things and trust in God more!
 
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Ringer

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Recently I am finding it hard to wait for sex until marriage. It seems so difficult lately, even though I don't have a boyfriend. Any suggestions?
Single huh?
Accept my proposal for marriage then :D

(I'm like, going to be the creepiest guy on this site lol)
 
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MissCris

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Single huh?
Accept my proposal for marriage then :D

(I'm like, going to be the creepiest guy on this site lol)
On a scale of 1-Creeptastic, you're sitting at a pretty solid "Suspected Creeper" right now :D
 
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Ringer

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On a scale of 1-Creeptastic, you're sitting at a pretty solid "Suspected Creeper" right now :D
So would you marry this creeper? :D

Or are you already married?
 
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MissCris

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So would you marry this creeper? :D

Or are you already married?
I'm married. But not to a creeper. I mean, I guess *I* could qualify as a creeper, creeping around in this forum when I'm already married. Huh.

 
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Ringer

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I'm married. But not to a creeper. I mean, I guess *I* could qualify as a creeper, creeping around in this forum when I'm already married. Huh.

Well, have many years of happiness =).
I seem to only come on here when I feel down. Otherwise I usually don't post on forums.
 
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Newlaura

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I was in your shoes before & it was tough. Especially if you have experienced sex before. But it is so much worth the wait & pleasing to God. Sex with your husband is the greatest most powerful intimacy you will ever experience with a human being. I thank God me & My husband chose to wait until marriage. I encourage you to stay grounded in the word. There is so many things that can go wrong if you chose to sin against God & fornicate. You will be married when you least expect it. Stay strong & Wait on. God to send you your husband.
 
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Ugly

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I'm guessing the OP got her answer as she hasn't been back since this thread started three weeks ago. 0.0
 
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iTOREtheSKY

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I'm guessing the OP got her answer as she hasn't been back since this thread started three weeks ago. 0.0
Of course she hasn't been back ya' goob...you told her to get rid of her computer-AKA "internet" (among other things). laffin'
You just don't understand the power of yer' words Ugly...sooooo very powerful. :p
 
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Aniraj

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Ms. KIARA,
I pray that God will give you more strength to conquer you flesh ... Just believe and trust God. We know that sex is only for a married couple, having sex out of it is fornication and it is sin... im not saying that i didnt feel about it, but when it is coming we dont have to fucos in this instead we should get bible and read and listen some Christian music.. maybe its the best way to overcome on it.... Stay blessed and have a nice day to you....