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I’m beginning to lose count of the number of times that I have really liked a guy, but walked away from him because I felt that I would either be keeping him from something he wanted to do (although vehemently denied by the guy haha) or because another lady I cared about liked him too. Is it selfish to want to be with someone under either of those circumstances, especially when the guy truly appears to really like you as well?
There have been times when a guy or friends have said that I shouldn’t do this…that I should fight for a relationship if I truly want it. If a relationship is right, is that really necessary? Where do you draw the line? Are guys testing us in some way when this happens (not sure I like that…)? Are they, as some of my friends have said, trying to provoke me to jealousy or something (don’t like the idea of that either)?
There have been times when a guy or friends have said that I shouldn’t do this…that I should fight for a relationship if I truly want it. If a relationship is right, is that really necessary? Where do you draw the line? Are guys testing us in some way when this happens (not sure I like that…)? Are they, as some of my friends have said, trying to provoke me to jealousy or something (don’t like the idea of that either)?