What are your relationship dealbreakers?

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notmyown

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Make a bad joke in her presence. You'll learn. She has a glare that could slice concrete.
if you were trying to increase my admiration of her, congratulations! you succeeded :)
 

kinda

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Now, you see I don’t think they can. Lamb has only one “L” and a llamacorn has two. Ain’t no coexistence in that. It’s like living in Lalabama.
Don't get Cameron started, or he will start trying to impress everyone with his superior grammaring...
 

Cameron143

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Don't get Cameron started, or he will start trying to impress everyone with his superior grammaring...
Jealousy doesn't look good on you. You just better hope Pipp isn't in Llamacorn mode.
 

kinda

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Jealousy doesn't look good on you. You just better hope Pipp isn't in Llamacorn mode.
I assure you I'm not jealous, I just had pizza for breakfast.

Camerson, there is no such thing as a llamacorn. That's just Pipp's fighting name, majestic llamacorn. It's just to intimidate her enemies.
 

Cameron143

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I assure you I'm not jealous, I just had pizza for breakfast.

Camerson, there is no such thing as a llamacorn. That's just Pipp's fighting name, majestic llamacorn. It's just to intimidate her enemies.
Obviously you like living dangerously. Camerson is my ninja name so you now are being hunted by a ninja and a llamacorn. So if you feel a sharp pain, it will be either the tip of a shiruken or unihorn.
 

kinda

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Obviously you like living dangerously. Camerson is my ninja name so you now are being hunted by a ninja and a llamacorn. So if you feel a sharp pain, it will be either the tip of a shiruken or unihorn.
Ninja and a llamacorn are pretty tough, but.......


I got Andre the Giant from the Brute Squad.


I just want to remind you, we have a wheel barrel.
 

seekingthemindofChrist

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What are your relationship dealbreakers, besides religious requirements? This is intended to be a fun but slightly serious thread.
Seeing how a lot of relationships wind up being broken, and seeing how there is often a lot of pain involved, I hope that you do not mind if I give a totally serious answer here.

For me, the primary deal breaker is if a woman will not truly let me know who she is on the inside. I mean, that is the real person, and if I am not granted access to the real person, then everything else, in my estimation, is just superficial, and eventually destined for disaster.

It just so happens that I am a very deep and passionate (I am not talking primarily about physically...especially since I truly feel no physical attraction to a woman who shuts me off internally) man, and that always seems to be a problem. In other words, I seem to always encounter women who are focused solely on the external, as opposed to matters of the heart, and I am pretty much the polar opposite.

I am sorry, to an extent, for momentarily interrupting the fun here, but I regularly encounter people who have basically been crushed by bad relationships, so this is a very serious matter for me. Also, by no means were any of my comments meant to sound detrimental to women as a whole. This is just one man's experiences, and my experiences do not apply solely to relationships that might one day lead to marriage by any means. Instead, my experiences definitely deal with friendships as well. If I cannot truly know a person, then I simply cannot be their friend because I care about my friends, and who they truly are on the inside.
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seekingthemindofChrist

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Just a quick addendum to my last post...

There is a young guy that I used to work with at a previous job of mine, and he and I have remained friends on Facebook.

Every day, for months, he posted pictures of himself and his girlfriend on his Facebook account, and, every day, they seemed to be engaged in some different activity together. You know, things like going to concerts together, going to museums together, or being at some sort of outdoor event together. As I was viewing their photos for months, I kept wondering to myself if they would truly get along with each other without being at some sort of stimulating event together. Well, a couple of weeks ago, he reached out to me in despair because their relationship had ended. I did not get the details from him yet, but I would not be the least bit surprised if the reason why they broke up is because they simply had nothing in common without all of the external stimuli.

My advice to everyone who is truly seeking a mate of any sort is simply this:

Find someone whose heart truly binds together with your heart.

Without this...
 

Cameron143

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Ninja and a llamacorn are pretty tough, but.......


I got Andre the Giant from the Brute Squad.


I just want to remind you, we have a wheel barrel.
The only Brute Squad you are on is by Faberge.
 

Lanolin

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You have to know how to behave in a library - no deal if you get kicked out - says the librarian who's been banned from two
 

Cameron143

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Brutes don't wear cologne, it's against the brute codes of honor. You obviously never been on the brute squad before.
Are you kidding me? They made it because you smell so bad. Either way, we can smell you before you turn the corner.