I always cook for everyone!!! Sadly no one helps!!! I think they are spoiled. I had out of town guests in which all my family refused to be near, so that was awkward for me not having all I love, however I respect their choice. I smoked a 20lb Turkey and made all the trimmings...stuffing, sweet potato casserole, green bean casserole thing that I make because others love...I am not fond of it, honey baby carrots, jello salads, rolls, mashed poes, salad and pumpkin, apple and chocolate pies. I had NO LEFTOVERS...which was sad!