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Okay. This is difficult to put in words. If love is a decision, then how do you know the difference between love and using someone? Need help with this one. I thought love was an emotion that grew stronger over time spent with someone whom I enjoyed being with. If love is a decision, is there no emotion involved? Is it just that we look at someone's status in life and say to ourselves, "That's where I want to be"? Do we then hope that lust turns into something more? Need some help on this one. Hope I am posting in the right forum. Thanks for your responses.