What's the biggest reason you're single TODAY

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AsifinPassing

AsifinPassing

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Hmm... "biggest" reason that *I* am single...Today...

Well, to start with:

Sesame Street - Three Of These Things - Animals and Tools - YouTube

...which then pretty much leads us to...

Sesame Street: Kermit And Cookie Monster And The Mystery Box - YouTube

...and after establishing that, we get to...

The Break Up Song - Rhett & Link - YouTube

...yeah, and then it was kinda like...

Minion WHAT?! - YouTube

...followed by...

I hate Mondays. - YouTube

...and I was kinda...



...but really, there was no girl...just an imagining...



...so it was kinda like watching "5 Centimeters per Second" ...but then...this whole response was largely an incoherent mess of half-truths woven in a twisted web of confused playfulness alluding to otherwise serious and lengthy memories...

...but as for right now, I'd say, it's because the past 12 didn't work out, and unless I either find one I just fall head over heals for, or otherwise get the 'Go-Ahead' from 'The Big Guy' (first time referencing God with that phrase...hmm...), I'm pretty much just living life the best as I find I can...
 
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katalyst

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flight316 said:
I really don't know why I'm single. Its not by choice. I think about it all the time. I can't figure it out. And I'm good at figureing things out. I noticed that some of you seemed to have given up. Please don't give up. You are deserving of relationship just like anyone else. I know its really hard sometimes when you're waiting. Let's keep the faith that God will give us the desires of our heart. God bless.
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AMEN TO THAT!
 
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katalyst

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A combination of things, waiting on God, busy, enjoying being single, study, workaholic and in all honesty a certain amount of fear of the unknown but mainly I don't think I've met him yet! :D
 
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DivorcedM_35

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arwen83 said:
Well in regards to TODAY, I am single today because I've been lazing around the house on cc and watching YouTube videos, and not interacting with who is beyond these four walls.
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Would be nice to find such a cool simple reason for my singleness! But I am happy single and that is a good space to be in.
 
Descyple

Descyple

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Descyple said:
The main reason I'm single today is because last week I lost my wallet, and shortly afterwards my girlfriend mysteriously disappeared as well.

But I'm sure those two occurrences were purely coincidental.
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Jullianna said:
That was yours??????????????????? oops ... :)

Well, thanks for the new shoes :D
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I'm glad my money went toward a good cause!!!

Next time Jullianna, just tell me you need new shoes and I'll give you a 10% off coupon I have for Payless ShoeSource (the coupon is expired, but hopefully they won't notice).
 
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Meisha022

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I am single today because I am not attracted to the guys that I attract. I am not shallow nor am I rude. I have a type but I don't automatically stick to it. I do believe that God is going to send me the right one(unless he has already and I'm being stubborn) so I try not to get caught up in that.
 
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Roots

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It's kind of a long story, but I believe that I'm single because God has been protecting me. This is something that I'm incredibly thankful for and frustrated by at the same time. I'm currently in a place where God is leading me through some tough stuff to eventually, I trust, be free of some junk in my life. YAY!

On another note, I find that the pool of eligible men gets smaller all the time which worries me a little... but I'm also learning to REALLY appreciate being single. I just trust that when the time comes, God brings a good man into my life!
 
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Bryancampbell

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Remember a relationship isn't about what role that person should fit in your life, but what role you can in theirs.
 
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jullom

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bc princess zelda is only in a video game and taylor swift isn't into me thats why i believe i'm single that and that girls don't really talk to me much
 
mellybellyjf

mellybellyjf

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hmmmm, because i needed to be. God knows us better than we know ourselves. Call me a silly hopeful romantic but I believe God has someone for us if we allow HIM to be our matchmaker.

I look back now and know if any one of the relationships I had would have "worked out" the still would have dissolved later because I would have most likely taken out, intentionally or not, a lot of unresolved baggage on my significant other. I'm glad this didn't happen. I want to love others as best as possible even if it leads to nothing romantic.

I am told by some some that if I talk to much it makes me sound "desperate" not but I'm just ME! I like to talk, that is not romantic or significant to me so if my capacity to talk drives someone away from even being a friend then that is there problem.

So, we shouldn't worry about needing to change to make someone like us, our biggest concern should be to be as whole as we can in God first and when the right guy (or girl) comes along hopefully we'll just happen.

who knows.
 
melita916

melita916

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i am single today because... i don't get asked out. lol

i'm ok with that (for right now lol) because i'm taking this time to be involved in different ministries :)
 
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isaria

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I feel like my spirit has been locked up and my wing tied up.
Like in a cage or some device like they used in that magic monkey movie.
I want to be free spirit and to be united in who and all I am.
I miss being who I am and feeling like a empty meat for how i work and so forth.

The reason I am single or one reason is I have had some very bad people do everything to isolate me , steal from me, slander, "setup".
Other many illegal things have occurred I shall not write here and now but that is contributing factor.
It is astounding how much jealousy and maliciousness and hate they have for me they do anything and everything to hurt harm and had lots death threates from these people as well.


I beleive i have inner beauty but without my spirit a soul and meat and although my face feels like a raisin with dead skincells and layers of dust on it it does not look that way.


I know it sounds strange but I actually beleive the reason I am living alone is because of some very bad people been stealing from me and isolating me and doing crime on me and i have still been working but not with my body.

I know of someone had plastic surgery to look exactly like some one with money and titel to steal from them and also to steal their cat and keep in cage. If they did not have friends but so much money was involved and other things also then everyone in on doing bad crime including some "christians".

If there were shares and other "stuff" :) and maliciously thought was 50/50 but we swap dolls and therefor real doll gets 10% and gives 90% work but we will look as if we work this . Then in the end 90% is for the whom had 10 % and was surviving and working so hard but did not look so.
Blessed are you .........


I want to marry a real main and that is important and i want him to want the same.
 
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isaria

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Another reason is i come across as stupid when people speak to me.
I was told to mime my time and talk a programmed type talk or let some one else talk for me in a way and bad things happened.

I have difficulties talking or writing but I whisper and I use sign language to those who understand my type of sign i communicate with.
Some times i have spoken fluently and true in my real meat but not often when it happened it feels wonderful and i am my self.
I am actually not stupid although i come across as so.
If i am channeling a lot and working and am not present in my body in spirit "i" may not answer or know questions that are easy.
Strange is it for I am educated professional i r l and have worked as tutor and have own business and have had a lot of communication and work with people but it is on such a level it is not usually physical face to face so to say.
Keeping me supressed, islolated etc then they can keep living wonderfully and stealing.


Those times I can communicate with people it is very nice.
I communicated with some catholic people recently .
Some discriminated my doll in the 9 and how hard she works balancing my size but some others did not discrimnate her and communicated and ackknowledged educated. I still teach at universities some times. (and cant even spell ) :) go figure....

I am so lonely and torture occured in another country and I have animals who were stolen.

Have spoken with a few men in sign language i use and they understood.
Some one amoung them i could perhaps marry but as said other people are actually been very malicious.


I have one brother who is a true /real brother and he lives far away but has been supporting me that he says i am his sister and it is sincere.
He signed for me last night that i am his real sister.
I have one real brother.
Maybe i could sign language to him ask him to "hook me up" with a date. :)
 
secularhermit

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@Isaria "...I am actually not stupid although i come across as so..."

Hi! I believe it so. May I ask you to write anything to me, once in a while?

I can´t read that sign language you mentioned, but I have worked with people having that CAPABILITY and I saw they WORKED much more than those who have tongue, ears, eyes, nose...

It shocked me how soon this people united to work, while we (those who had "all" senses) took more than an hour to work on the issue we were asked for.

So, if you write, I will reply once in a while, since I don´t have internet regularly, my best PC is in a closet, and I pay to hire woth things in any town I would be or will working for a client, to get fixed his/her PC.

Is it too offensive to be asked? I guess not. It take time both sides, and both can be helped. Agreed?

Be free!
 
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soccerbrat4

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I am single today because I am not what others see as beautiful.
 
PANCAKES

PANCAKES

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AsifinPassing said:
Hmm... "biggest" reason that *I* am single...Today...

...so it was kinda like watching "5 Centimeters per Second" ...but then...this whole response was largely an incoherent mess of half-truths woven in a twisted web of confused playfulness alluding to otherwise serious and lengthy memories...

...but as for right now, I'd say, it's because the past 12 didn't work out, and unless I either find one I just fall head over heals for, or otherwise get the 'Go-Ahead' from 'The Big Guy' (first time referencing God with that phrase...hmm...), I'm pretty much just living life the best as I find I can...
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5 centimeters per second made me depressed...
 
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meiBaby

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'cuz i need to be in solitude with God at this time, to know Him more :)
 
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BananaPie

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BananaPie is single because her IQ is 137... bummer!
 
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